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Omw back home from a puzzling short date.
Met her 2-3 weeks ago in the city. Shes a cute uni student. The initial interaction was very short and she gave me her number on her initiative. Weird already. She always replied very quickly and briefly to my texts and arranging the date was super easy. Thought ok, its never this easy but hey, she must be dtf.
So we met tonight at 8pm. She was wearing plain clothes and is the artist type. Quite interesting character. She really wanted to go someplace. I kept telling her, hey lets go to the place i had in mind (at the river), then we can bounce. However she insisted so much that we ended up were she wanted - a "quiet place that youll love". Already a mistake here on my part to follow her lead, but i thought fuck it, lets go.
So we sit in this secluded little courtyard, away from the crowd (in retrospect she maybe didnt want to be seen by people she might know). We chat a bit while i touch her arm, leg, ears and hair. Were on a bench, but she doesnt really lean back on it. Doesnt seem at ease, but we keep chatting. She draws really well and asks me to pose for her so that she can draw me on her notebook. I tell her, no thanks, not really into this. She says, fine.
At some point we talk about dating and she tells me, i have a particular approach to dating. I ask her to tell me, she tells me no, its personal. Hmm, suspicious.
Im not really feeling a good chemistry with this gal. Her attitude is in retrospect quite bad, i should have called her out on a couple disrespectful things she said, but in the moment i think to myself, were just like 30 mins in, ill have us bounce now and things will go better. However not too long after that she tells me, alright i gotta go, ill take you to the station.
This catches me a bit by surprise as it sounds like a very sudden decision, but i smile and say, dont worry, ill just go to X first and walk a bit, but you can go. She prob notices me closing up a bit and tells me, nooo lemme walk a bit with you, i didnt see X yet and im curious. So we walk a bit together and she asks me to teach her some words in my language, but its clear shes sorta tolerating me. I really wanna get her off my back now, so i decide to bid her farewell amicably and we part ways.
First thought was, maybe she took a better look at me and she saw im older than she recalled. Then i thought, hmm, if thats not the case, then whatever mistake i made musta been huge, as her decision to call the evening was really sudden.
Then i was like, wait a minute, what if shes a sugar baby? I usually tell girls im poor as soon as possible during the first meet. With this girl tho i only told her tonight, and indeed at one point she asked me, why are you poor?
No clue tho. Genuinely the weirdest date i ever had.
Any pointers from you gentlemen?
Met her 2-3 weeks ago in the city. Shes a cute uni student. The initial interaction was very short and she gave me her number on her initiative. Weird already. She always replied very quickly and briefly to my texts and arranging the date was super easy. Thought ok, its never this easy but hey, she must be dtf.
So we met tonight at 8pm. She was wearing plain clothes and is the artist type. Quite interesting character. She really wanted to go someplace. I kept telling her, hey lets go to the place i had in mind (at the river), then we can bounce. However she insisted so much that we ended up were she wanted - a "quiet place that youll love". Already a mistake here on my part to follow her lead, but i thought fuck it, lets go.
So we sit in this secluded little courtyard, away from the crowd (in retrospect she maybe didnt want to be seen by people she might know). We chat a bit while i touch her arm, leg, ears and hair. Were on a bench, but she doesnt really lean back on it. Doesnt seem at ease, but we keep chatting. She draws really well and asks me to pose for her so that she can draw me on her notebook. I tell her, no thanks, not really into this. She says, fine.
At some point we talk about dating and she tells me, i have a particular approach to dating. I ask her to tell me, she tells me no, its personal. Hmm, suspicious.
Im not really feeling a good chemistry with this gal. Her attitude is in retrospect quite bad, i should have called her out on a couple disrespectful things she said, but in the moment i think to myself, were just like 30 mins in, ill have us bounce now and things will go better. However not too long after that she tells me, alright i gotta go, ill take you to the station.
This catches me a bit by surprise as it sounds like a very sudden decision, but i smile and say, dont worry, ill just go to X first and walk a bit, but you can go. She prob notices me closing up a bit and tells me, nooo lemme walk a bit with you, i didnt see X yet and im curious. So we walk a bit together and she asks me to teach her some words in my language, but its clear shes sorta tolerating me. I really wanna get her off my back now, so i decide to bid her farewell amicably and we part ways.
First thought was, maybe she took a better look at me and she saw im older than she recalled. Then i thought, hmm, if thats not the case, then whatever mistake i made musta been huge, as her decision to call the evening was really sudden.
Then i was like, wait a minute, what if shes a sugar baby? I usually tell girls im poor as soon as possible during the first meet. With this girl tho i only told her tonight, and indeed at one point she asked me, why are you poor?
No clue tho. Genuinely the weirdest date i ever had.
Any pointers from you gentlemen?
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thanks again, found the place. Cool to meet a fellow jackrussel lover!
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