Humay's Newbie Assignment

[Humay]

Well, i've decided to take up chase's newbie assignment! And i'm definitely excited and terrified at the same time.
The only problem is that i live in a boring village, and the nearest town is about an hour walk away. But i don't have a choice other than to go, it's not like a gorgeous woman would just turn up at my doorstep (unfortunately).

This is the type of girl i'm looking for:

• Calm
  Quiet
  Traditional
  Artistic
  Intelligent (but modest)
  Dark hair and dark beautiful eyes
  Mid-tone skin (i don't mind pale skin though).
  Adorable

I love foreign women (especially asian (west and east) and continental european), though i don't mind local girls.

 

[Humay]

Day 1: Observation

Find at least four (4) places where i can find women i'd like to meet.

Things to keep in mind:

I don't live in a megacity. Whenever i go to town, i see about 4 or 5 reasonably pretty girls for the whole day. The rest of the girls are too young, too old, with their mum or just unattractive. So i will have to work to be very efficient when i meet girls.

My day:

AREA 1: Book shop

Pros:
My type of girls.
Relaxed and calm atmosphere
Can actually do some reading while i'm waiting.

Cons:
Although i sometimes see girls there, they're not usually very pretty.


AREA 2: Stationary shop:

Pros:
Plenty of girls my age.
Calm, relaxed atmosphere.

Cons:
A very family friendly environment. Girls mainly go in there with family and friends, so probably won't be interested in meeting strangers.


AREA 3: Book shop 2

Pros:
An open, spacious environment.
Calm and relaxed atmosphere.
Can read a few books to pass the time.

Cons:
Saw only two girls here that weren't above the age of 40. (And they looked about 14!). Will have to be patient here.


AREA 4: Chinese grocery shop:

Pros:
There always seems to be at least one sexy chinese girl in there.

Cons:
Tiny and squashed shop.
Might actually have to buy something from there as it'll become obvious i'm going there for the women, not the jasmine tea.
The quiet environment in the tiny shop would make miss china more shy that she already is.


AREA 5: Clothes shop:

Pros:
All the sexiest girls my age seem to hang out here.

Cons:
Loud music, not a good place for conversation.
Dark light. I can't really see them. They can't really see me. And i can't see her massive boyfriend who's a few feet away.
The girls that go there aren't really the kind of girls i'm looking for. Their faces have usually a lot of make-up, and they seem a bit materialistic and loud themselves (though they could just be reacting to the environment, i don't know).

What i've learnt today:

Life's not easy. Nothing much else.

 

[nino]

I wish you all the best on your journey, good luck will follow!

- nino

 

[PrettyDecent]

Humay, glad to see you've taken up the newbie assignment. I like your detailed entry on places to go to.

The only problem is that i live in a boring village, and the nearest town is about an hour walk away. But i don't have a choice other than to go, it's not like a gorgeous woman would just turn up at my doorstep (unfortunately).

After exhausting the small population of chicks near the small town I'm at now, I now travel into the big city, and it generally takes about an hour (by public transport). You may notice the girls are much easier to spot, and the turnover rate is fantastic. Best of all, they travel into your town to meetup . (assuming the town you are taking about has more than "4 or 5 reasonably attractive girls)

 

[Humay]

Day 2

Before i begin, i just want to clarify that i've decided to do one newbie assignment once a week. I've got my final school exams this/next month, so it'll be plain stupid to invest time in anything else (unfortunately).

Spend at least twenty (20) minutes walking about with improved posture and get a feel for the difference in how people react to you.

My day

This assignment didn't seem so bad, and of course it wasn't. I read Chase's article on how to walk properly, and various articles on how to keep your posture before i went out.

Honestly as i was looking around, i didn't really see how posture was an issue. Few guys had good posture, few guys had bad posture. 90% of men were walking around with very neutral, average postures. The ones who did have bad postures all had a fairy good looking woman with them (maybe they were too relaxed in their relationship? I don't know).

However, I noticed that when i straightened my back, stuck my chest out, and walk how Chase advised, i got more looks from people. They were just glances, but it was noticeable. It wasn't just young women (older women seemed to look also), but men seemed to shy away from eye contact and seemed to react very slightly more negatively to this (oh well, can't please everyone!).

To finish my day, i thought i'll play a little game with myself.
I would start from one side of the town centre, and walk to the other side in a totally straight line (about 800 metres) without stopping or deviating from my designated line (unless there was a tree or a guy in a wheelchair).
To my surprise, everyone seemed to go around me. I found some people were more difficult to persuade than others, but a suitable amount of eye contact before i passed them was enough to convince most of them to move out of the way. There were one or two difficult men who i had to get out of the way for otherwise it would have been a collision. But other than that, it was a success

Can't wait for the next assignment next week. Later

Edit: I just remembered something quite awkward when i was out there. When i finished my assignment, i treated myself to an ice cream. As i was sitting in the sun on a bench, i saw a woman about my age with the sexiest body i've seen in a while with skin tight clothing. As i was looking at her, i looked into her eyes while slowly licking my ice cream with a hint of sexual intent. It lasted for about 5 seconds until she looked away, and i couldn't stop myself laughing from the awkwardness afterwards!

 

[Humay]

Day 5

I missed out day 3 and 4 as they seemed quite standard, and i don't really have much time in my summer holidays to be faffing about with women. So i realised i better get this done and dusted now that my exams are out the way.

Today was quite average, but still a bit of a blow to my ego (yet again). I know that they're rejecting my opening rather than me personally, and i've always been on a whole new league of useless when it comes to women. But it's hard not to feel a bit let down when no woman responds positively to you at all.

For all the 6 girls i approached, i said:

Me: Hi
Her: ...hi?...
Me: (intentional pause-as learned in Chase's slow opening).
Her: ...
Me: So how's your day going?
Her: Okay...?

(She quickly crosses the road or goes somewhere else before i can continue).

I took the bus home, feeling a bit dejected. But there was this eastern-european looking beauty sitting a few seats behind me whom i took notice of. When we just happened to get off at the same stop, i knew that i may as well make the most of what fate gave me.

Me: Hi, excuse me, what's the time? (the coward's classic opener. Also my favourite).
Her: 20 to two.
Me: (realising she was approaching a business-looking building) So you work here?
Her: Yes, i do (with a hint of annoyance)
Me: really? You look really young!
Her: ...thank you...

(Quickly walks to the other side of the road and goes into her comapany's massive building. I suppose she was just late for work).

Tomorrow's assignment looks like it'll be a horror show. But do it i must! Until then...

 

[Humay]

I've really tried, but i just don't have the courage to do Day 6 at all. Approaching a random woman and asking her if she's single without cringing and going red in the face with embarrassment- it's not possible!

 

[trashKENNUT]

Me: Hi
Her: ...hi?...
Me: (intentional pause-as learned in Chase's slow opening).
Her: ...
Me: So how's your day going?
Her: Okay...?

I hope you didn't scare her off. Pregnant Pause is good, but you can use this too in to gauge her reaction and see if you can ask her to come and talk to you at one side.

Things to note:

Opening Body Language
Voice

Me: Hi, excuse me, what's the time? (the coward's classic opener. Also my favourite).
Her: 20 to two.
Me: (realising she was approaching a business-looking building) So you work here?
Her: Yes, i do (with a hint of annoyance)
Me: really? You look really young!
Her: ...thank you...

She's experienced, She's been approached many times too likely. and you trying to beat around the bush, She thought you were genuine, and you were indirect.

You must be direct after that.

Zac