I Am Gathering Notes On 'Shitting Where You Eat'

[trashKENNUT]

Yes.

I hope you guys love the title.
In Asia, this bullshit is common. Actually, globally this is common. The pickup community seems to not be immuned to the 'Moving Mosque' effect.

'Moving Mosque' effect, in simple terms is you thinking that the world revolves around your religion, or that you think that the world is ending tomorrow.
Sidenote: I hate it when Chase says 'the history illusion' onto me. When i am writing, obviously i need to sensationalize it. But important to be wary.
I don't believe in 'don't shit where you eat'. It will go against women's rule of she's gonna do what she's gonna do. Also, she is wary of the tribe.

In Asia, even if i don't shit where i eat, Girls be shitting on me if they like me. Might as well i shit on them, just more bigger. (haha)

Anyway......... Pickup artist, Dating community is like guys who cums inside girls and then don't reply her text back. I get it. We are men. We do this shit. But ignoring this is not going to get us forward. I want to dig into this.

If you guys are willing, please share notes of what you see, experience where 'shit where you eat', is positive. lolx
p.s: I hope i don't need to go on a 'Bill Burr' rant.

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[Train]

I've seen people at work pull it off well. The pro is guys get a girl like them (educated, professional, same class, etc). They're high quality girls on paper. But the major con is if the girl accuses the guy of sexual harassment.

A buddy of mine had that happen. Things soured in their relationship. So he ignored her. Again and again. Eventually she started spreading rumors about him. She ended up reporting him to HR.

Once he was called in, they were against him from the go. They were leaning towards escorting him out and punishing him.

He was lucky in that he had witnesses and evidence. He also had evidence that she manipulated and twisted facts with HR.

After his defense, he was cleared. But the stigma stayed with people that were friends with her, I believe. It's not like HR sends a memo out to let everyone know he's been cleared, haha.

But I think shitting where you eat is very risky with little reward. At least for people that value their career or job over women.

I think work girls are very appealing when it's your only source of women. I know I've had that happen to me. When I meet women outside work, I lose interest for girls at work.

 

[Skills]

No way specifically in this climate, with that being said for ltr seems to work well, for what I have seen, but

meh

How to seduce women that are part of your social circle, roommates, co-workers, classmates and the likes. - The Skills Method

Keys on seducing women on your social circle, co-workers, friend family members etc...

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[Bismarck]

Yeah don’t do it.

You’ll get fired and, if you’re even more unlucky, have your career ruined.

At work you’re a eunuch, who isn’t masculine and doesn’t get turned on by coworkers showing cleavage or tight skirts around their g-string panties.

You have to stoically ignore it all. Tell yourself those girls have dicks or something to throw off their scent.

Above all, don’t let it be known you’re a player.

 

[trashKENNUT]

Based on the limited information given, actually there's a lot if followed all over the years.
It's really a mix bag. I might find myself to be like Chase with a grey beard, who learns that we do create false consensus, example: hypergamy.

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[Rakkum]

Feels a bit like a dogma.

I'd say it's quite situation-specific, some factors that come to mind right away:

* Which part of the world are you at
* What is the power differential between you and the women
* Structure of workplace - turnover of employees, what the hierarchy is like, size of the organization, how much oversight by superiors etc.
* Culture of the workplace - is it a blue collar job, mostly young students, corporate etc.
* How much are you invested in that particular workplace, can you easily move on to another job etc.

A vice president of a big HR company in NY vs. a bartender at some big techno club in Berlin

 

[trashKENNUT]

* What is the power differential between you and the women

fuck yes. it depends.
If she is "physically unblessed", the likelihood is she just keeps quiet. If she makesup a lot, she's "noisier". If she is decently cute, it depends on her values and circle.

But i am working with limited info at the moment.

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