This girl and me have been going out for a few weeks every weekend. Two weeks ago I overreacted to her silence and over texted. I didnt text her until yesterday and i made a joke of how i looked funny how was looking needy and desperate. And she said I didnt appear that way to her. I no it looks bad ill do the silence treatment on her but not sure for how long again i no i loss my frame. She had tested me before not replying to a text until the following day were i didnt lose my cool. Im pretty sure I lost this girl which is not a big deal but does anyone have any similar experiences.
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Approach more girls...last time I was over thinking what one girl is doing or not doing..I ended up in oneitis land.....you can't train yourself to not be moved by what one girl is doing if she is the only real prospect in your life....lots not about discipline ....it's about having so many prospects tha if ones not replying you don't even muthafucking notice
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Yea it probably didn't even appear to her that you were desperate. Just because a girl reply late, it could mean she's busy and forgot to reply. It's actually a legit reason. I only finally understood this last week, because a girl came to my workplace to give me some lunch that she made, but because I was super busy, I didn't really acknolwedge her when she came by to drop it off. Then only after work, I suddenly remember she came by today and texted her "thanks and I really appreciate it, and sorry didn't have time to catch up with you". A few hours later...she send me a long text saying that she's mad it took me so long to even apologize....at the back of my mind, I was like "wtf, I just finish work and I was legit busy, why do I even need to apologize? ur crazy". so I didn't even bother replying her because I dont have mental energy for that shit man lol Then after a week, she initiated texting again and asking how I'm doing....so yea... don't over react to things over text, not worth it man, and chances are you're making up a story in your mind that's not true. This girl probably didn't even think u were needy because her mind was literally somewhere else lol. Then u mentioned it, so now she actually might think u were needy and desperate. Be a man on your purpose and don't let small things like this bother you. Girls will chase you 