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So a few weeks ago I was doing one of my first approaches that went beyond a simple “hello”. Because, I was trying to start off small at first, since i have zero experience in communicating with chicks or really anybody. Well now I’ve been upping the ante and started asking for numbers. Number close as you guys call it, I think. Well my interaction turned out completely fucked up.
I was on my way back home from a far trip and I was passing by a college campus on foot. I decided to cut through and I was walking through one of the areas that only students walk in. I came up to this cute girl, who looked about 18, greeted her and started talking to her while walking alongside her (we were both going the same direction). I tried to be funny, telling her a story about how I got kicked out of college for drinking too much, the whole time she was responding to me but not very enthusiastically. I asked her little bullshit questions like if her classes were hard, etc. After some small talk I feared the conversation was dying out, since she wasn’t replying very enthusiastically. After an awkward 5 second pause as we were walking alongside each other, I told her that she should invite me back home so that she can have me for a treat. She didn’t even respond to that. I then told her to stop and I gave her my number and told her to call me later tonight. I noticed as she was putting in my number her fingers were shaking and I asked her if she was cold, because it didn’t seem cold outside. But she didn’t answer. Her expression was strange. She was smiling but just barely. Once she was done putting in my name and number she very abruptly said “thanks” and turned around and walked off. That ending felt very weird to me, because who just says “thanks” flatly and then turns around and walks off? But I didn’t think too much of it. I was happy because it appeared to be my first number close and on the way home I started fantasizing about what we were going to do together and what I’d say when she called. But instead I got a call from her mother, telling me to leave her alone and that she told the cops on me. I tried to tell her that I hadn’t done anything wrong, but she wouldn’t listen. She instead said that her daughter was too young for me, yet I told her I was 25 and that it’s not a big deal. Well that bitch hung up the phone. Couple days later the campus pigs start blowing up my phone leaving me messages wanting to speak with me. I just didn’t answer and they left my line alone after a couple days. Fucking dipshits.
Not sure what the hell triggered her panic attack. Was it because I told her she should invite me home so I can be her "treat"? Was that really too strange of a thing to say?
What's also wierd, is that if she indeed was feeling panic, why did she continue to have this slight smile until the end of the interaction?
I really don't know what the fuck happened.
Well now I sincerely don’t even feel like talking to women anymore because the slightest mishap will cause them to panic and call the cops. What’s with this bullshit? I seriously don’t feel like even saying a word to them anymore. Because who knows what the fuck awaits me the next time I approach? Chicks these days will call the cops over anything these days. This is bullshit. What advice do you dudes have though?
I was on my way back home from a far trip and I was passing by a college campus on foot. I decided to cut through and I was walking through one of the areas that only students walk in. I came up to this cute girl, who looked about 18, greeted her and started talking to her while walking alongside her (we were both going the same direction). I tried to be funny, telling her a story about how I got kicked out of college for drinking too much, the whole time she was responding to me but not very enthusiastically. I asked her little bullshit questions like if her classes were hard, etc. After some small talk I feared the conversation was dying out, since she wasn’t replying very enthusiastically. After an awkward 5 second pause as we were walking alongside each other, I told her that she should invite me back home so that she can have me for a treat. She didn’t even respond to that. I then told her to stop and I gave her my number and told her to call me later tonight. I noticed as she was putting in my number her fingers were shaking and I asked her if she was cold, because it didn’t seem cold outside. But she didn’t answer. Her expression was strange. She was smiling but just barely. Once she was done putting in my name and number she very abruptly said “thanks” and turned around and walked off. That ending felt very weird to me, because who just says “thanks” flatly and then turns around and walks off? But I didn’t think too much of it. I was happy because it appeared to be my first number close and on the way home I started fantasizing about what we were going to do together and what I’d say when she called. But instead I got a call from her mother, telling me to leave her alone and that she told the cops on me. I tried to tell her that I hadn’t done anything wrong, but she wouldn’t listen. She instead said that her daughter was too young for me, yet I told her I was 25 and that it’s not a big deal. Well that bitch hung up the phone. Couple days later the campus pigs start blowing up my phone leaving me messages wanting to speak with me. I just didn’t answer and they left my line alone after a couple days. Fucking dipshits.
Not sure what the hell triggered her panic attack. Was it because I told her she should invite me home so I can be her "treat"? Was that really too strange of a thing to say?
What's also wierd, is that if she indeed was feeling panic, why did she continue to have this slight smile until the end of the interaction?
I really don't know what the fuck happened.
Well now I sincerely don’t even feel like talking to women anymore because the slightest mishap will cause them to panic and call the cops. What’s with this bullshit? I seriously don’t feel like even saying a word to them anymore. Because who knows what the fuck awaits me the next time I approach? Chicks these days will call the cops over anything these days. This is bullshit. What advice do you dudes have though?
