I need help. I met this girl as work a couple of days ago. We started talking, it was a nice conversation. may be pretty neutral and then I had to be on some other floor for sometime and I told I would comeback. My shif ended 30 mins before her's and I started chatting to her again. This was all in a clothing store. Then I asked her out for a coffee. She was like "whats your intention". I made a joke about kidnapping and then she told that she has a boyfriend. I told its ok we can still hangout as friends or something. She was also hesitant to share her number, but she almost did and told she doesnt wanna give any false hope and make me feel bad at the end. Somehow I compromised her to meet me after work. It kinda felt like I forced her to do meet me. She was hesitant, but she came. when we met, she was like lets just walk and not have coffee or anything. Then we walked for about 10 mins and then we spoke a few things. It was nice, but she zoned out a few times which made me feel that she is not that much into me. I really liked her (in fact, I told her so ) and I dont know if she felt the same. Then we exchanged numbers, she was again hesitant and told me to type my number in her phone and after that I told I dont pick up call from strange numbers and made a call from her phone and got her number( There was guy as wall paper in her phone). She told she is not good with friends and catching up frequently and fets tired of people in a short time after hanging out. I told its ok, may be we can catch up after 6 months and she smiled. I texted after getting back home, it was a normal flirt, she smiled and she did not reply for anything after that the next morning. I dont know if she likes me or if she was just nice to me. I might be seeing her tomorrow and I dont know what to do. She works there full time and I go in like 3 or 4 times a month as part time. She is german and I am Indian. She has toured around India and told she hates germany and is afraid of becoming like a german. When we were walking around, she told about the time she was depressed and stuffs about self help books. I was like a nice and stupid romantic throughout.
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