I don't know what to say to girls in conversation

[lukas1404]

Hey Guys, i wasn't sure which category this topic fits in so i just chose to put it in here.
I have a question about what to say to girls..i read all of the articles about conversation and what to say to girls on GirlsChase but i still got a lot of problems with this so i'd appreciate any help i could get. I Just don't know what the fuck to talk about with girls and it's really starting to frustrate me lol as i bought the How to make Girls Chase program and can follow it quite well, i understand the Basics of what girls are into now. So now let's take for example that you saw a beautiful girl somewhere and decided to talk to her, you use an opener like 'Hey, i saw you walking here and i just had to come tell you that your hair looks absolutely beautiful.' And then you introduce yourself after that.
But now thats the opener..what the f*k do you actually say to girls after that? How can you have conversations anywhere with any girl and make it interesting and exciting for them? I just need to know what to say. Another thing thats really bothering me is that i got the same problem with my best friend, too. Me and her been friends for years so it got pretty normal to text with her on the daily. But lately (for a few months now actually) i just don't know what to say..How can i text or talk to her every day without running out of topics and having things to talk about that she finds exciting and actually wants to engage in?And don't give me things like pull away for a day and text her the day after that to create attraction because i really talk to her daily and i don't wanna stop doing that lol I really need help to find things to say. How can i keep coming with interesting and exciting topics that she want's to engage in..so basically how can i never run out of things to say?
I'd really appreaciate any help you guys could give me as this issue is really getting to me lately haha It's just a bit frustrating. Also, sorry for any grammar mistakes i'm not a native speaker and i'm not that fluent in english.
Thanks in advance, Lukas

 

[Regal Tiger]

Just start by being curious and asking questions and making jokes/teasing.


One of my favorite things to do is to ask how someone's doing. Every time you'll get the auto-pilot answer of fine or something similar. So immediately follow it up with "Just fine? Why not great or amazing? What's going on in your life to make you so fine?" When this fails it's because the other person just plain doesn't want to talk to me (field tested heavily in Lyft). I use it mostly for platonic conversations but I do use it sometimes with women I'm interested in and it works just the same if they're somewhat interested.


TLR - just try to think fun/playful and curious when you talk to people. Try to find out something interesting about that person. After you've gone a little ways into the conversation you can even ask women what they have going on in their lives that doesn't involve their good looks.

That's my advice, just think curious and try to talk to more people and I think you'll naturally loosen up and after that you won't have too many more problems talking to women.

 

[BetaBoy]

1. Hi
2. Bust on her playfully
3. Entertain her and friends
4. Get alone time with her.

 

[Michal]

Hello Lukas,

After opener, I would say go situational ...
You meet her in a bookstore: "any interesting books you have read lately?" And when she says she does not read much that, that she is buying a gift you can tease her about that.
You stop her in a grocery store and you can do a cold read based on what she has in her basket or again ask her about her favourite food and again, be playful after that.
And then, you can build the conversation from there.

 

[ResentMasculinity]

"It is really too bad, unfortunate, that our schools do not teach conversation-skills, or that our society doesn't place more importance on learning, mastering conversation-skills. They are just as important as math or history or any other subject. Hell, to me, they are even more important because communication is the way you climb social-ladders." "The better you are at conversation, the easier it is to get a job, promotion, advance in career, attract people to form relationships and befriend people with ease" "better communication has been proven to help people succeed in the workplace better, and your ability to build relationships with people is whats going to determine your success in your life, not just dating or social life, but professional, work life as well"

powerful statement I read somewhere, totally agreed.

 

[Cacc]

tell her ur gonna stixk ur dick in her mouth