I Don't Understand Him

[Mr Mistah]

I'm in a social circle where this guy simply clears with women.

Honestly the highest reference point for what it means to be good with women.

He's abit immature in that he goes from one woman to another without giving a fuck

Leaves a trail of broken (yet yearning) hearts

He's not a Chad looks wise.

But he is quite proud.

Feels like he is God's gift to women kind of vibe. I don't chase them I replace them.

I am not convinced that this is his edge as men posture alot when their sexual ability comes into question.

But I tried interviewing girls that are into him to find out why and they said

1. He's a good listener
2. He connects with my feminine side

And my initial response was wtf do you mean?

You're attracted to nice guy therapist types?

No response. I just got alot of verbiage that doesn't really explain why they're into him

I even asked if it's dick game that gets them that crazy over him

One girl said no. That for her it's all mental and that she doesn't understand what's going on

But she mentioned that she heard he was a "lady's man" which I figured added preselection and competition anxiety to these women

This is a guy girls have asked "Why did you chose her over me?"

What's the secret?

I honestly can't see it

He's abit witty but not your gregarious alpha male Chad.

Average looks if I'm keeping it 100

This guy has high EQ but I honestly can't tell why he clears with women so much.

 

[empath]

I'm in a social circle where this guy simply clears with women.

Honestly the highest reference point for what it means to be good with women.

He's abit immature in that he goes from one woman to another without giving a fuck

Leaves a trail of broken (yet yearning) hearts

He's not a Chad looks wise.

But he is quite proud.

Feels like he is God's gift to women kind of vibe. I don't chase them I replace them.

I am not convinced that this is his edge as men posture alot when their sexual ability comes into question.

But I tried interviewing girls that are into him to find out why and they said

1. He's a good listener
2. He connects with my feminine side

And my initial response was wtf do you mean?

You're attracted to nice guy therapist types?

No response. I just got alot of verbiage that doesn't really explain why they're into him

I even asked if it's dick game that gets them that crazy over him

One girl said no. That for her it's all mental and that she doesn't understand what's going on

But she mentioned that she heard he was a "lady's man" which I figured added preselection and competition anxiety to these women

This is a guy girls have asked "Why did you chose her over me?"

What's the secret?

I honestly can't see it

He's abit witty but not your gregarious alpha male Chad.

Average looks if I'm keeping it 100

This guy has high EQ but I honestly can't tell why he clears with women so much.

Immature - devil may care, idgaf, hot/cold.

-> girls work for his attention.

Connects with her femine side + high EQ
-> make her feel understood

But when he wants too, cause of his immaturity

Confidence+ high EQ+ Witty
-> universal attractive trait.
-> does't engages in unattractive behaviour in front of girls.

Preselection
-> seems he has abundance

Why her not me
-> he is the prize in a girls eyes.

Looks like a rake to me, a rake is a prize to women

Look->
Even if he is average in a mens eye, about qualities make him above average from a girls POV.

I don't see a reason why he should not clean up with the womens.

 

[James D]

Bro girls don't even know why they a like guy.

They don't know what he does to make them so aroused and feel connected.

They will pick the most logical explanation for their attraction.

He's doing something right. A lot of things right.

You don't seem to understand him yourself so I wouldn't trust your description of what he's doing.

Anyway, it's a waste of time for yourself. Focus on improving your own dating prospects.

 

[superseducer]

watch him bro, stay focused and you'll advance past him.

 

[KJ Francis]

But I tried interviewing girls that are into him to find out why and they said

1. He's a good listener
2. He connects with my feminine side

And my initial response was wtf do you mean?

You might like the "Yin" chapter in Franco's book how to easily sleep with any woman you want. Just make sure to read the "Yang" chapter as well.