I don't understand this

[tommyguy]

I am a 20m and have a sister,long distance distance 28f.We live in a third world country where,most people are reserved.but I don't really mind what my sister wears,even if she shows off cleavage and posts it on Instagram or wears revealing dress heck I even tell her to wear bikini and hot dresses.


No one supports her but she appreciates that from me and loves me more for that and says you are pretty open minded.


Am I weird? Honest and brutal opinion needed.

 

[ulrich]

No. You’re OK.

But you are probably encouraging your sister to dress attractively so she can land MORE men and your family is encouraging her to act reserved so she attracts the attention of less but BETTER men.

Neither part is necessarily wrong and it is up for your sister to try both and make her decisions.

 

[tommyguy]

No. You’re OK.

But you are probably encouraging your sister to dress attractively so she can land MORE men and your family is encouraging her to act reserved so she attracts the attention of less but BETTER men.

Neither part is necessarily wrong and it is up for your sister to try both and make her decisions.

Oh yes she does attract a lot of men but me and her ,we both know that she knows how to filter out better men. And what she does is her own life......hmm will try to discuss with her this was really helpful