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No, I've not had a chance of preference and started looking for some D.
It's the main thing I hear after I put the 'let's go out sometime' scenario out there.
And when I don't and they say "yeah, here's my number" I don't get texted back, but that's a different problem, I think. Maybe it's not. I don't know.
So, on the one hand, sure, why wouldn't an attractive women with a bubbly personality not have a boyfriend. But then again, sometimes it's probably bullshit, and just a nicer way to say 'no thanks'
Plus, boyfriend is pretty vague. Boyfriend could mean 'guy I met 3 weeks ago that I maybe like' or 'guy I've been living with for 5 years'.
I had, what I thought anyway, was great interaction with a girl in the park recently. She was sat down, I just walked over to her and started chatting like we knew each other already. She was laughing and smiling a lot, obviously enjoying things, asking me about stuff, we were both making jokes, all seemed to be going well. At some point, she casually mentioned a 'partner' (a bit more serious than a bf, and possibly means she's into chicks, well maybe that's something we have in common, lol, surely that's good!). I didn't address it (in my head of course I was going FFS!) but we continued on having a nice time until it was time to go. I never bothered asking her out because of the partner comment, but I wonder now if it was just made up.
Anyway, how can you tell if the boyfriend is a lie, and is there anything you can do about it?
It's the main thing I hear after I put the 'let's go out sometime' scenario out there.
And when I don't and they say "yeah, here's my number" I don't get texted back, but that's a different problem, I think. Maybe it's not. I don't know.
So, on the one hand, sure, why wouldn't an attractive women with a bubbly personality not have a boyfriend. But then again, sometimes it's probably bullshit, and just a nicer way to say 'no thanks'
Plus, boyfriend is pretty vague. Boyfriend could mean 'guy I met 3 weeks ago that I maybe like' or 'guy I've been living with for 5 years'.
I had, what I thought anyway, was great interaction with a girl in the park recently. She was sat down, I just walked over to her and started chatting like we knew each other already. She was laughing and smiling a lot, obviously enjoying things, asking me about stuff, we were both making jokes, all seemed to be going well. At some point, she casually mentioned a 'partner' (a bit more serious than a bf, and possibly means she's into chicks, well maybe that's something we have in common, lol, surely that's good!). I didn't address it (in my head of course I was going FFS!) but we continued on having a nice time until it was time to go. I never bothered asking her out because of the partner comment, but I wonder now if it was just made up.
Anyway, how can you tell if the boyfriend is a lie, and is there anything you can do about it?