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I Just Can't Get The Hang Of It

Grizzy11

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I honestly just can't get the hang of this. There is just something inside of me that prevents me from getting better with women. I feel like my anxiety is holding me back. I feel like if I was invulnerable to the feeling of anxiety, and rejection then I would actually be able to start practicing.

The final straw came when once again, a very good looking woman decides to cut ties with me, because I cant progress things forward. It made me really depressed, because this happens quit often. I am sick, and tired of the same things happening every single time. Its depressing. Its not fun. I still can't even kiss a girl yet. Anxiety holds me back from way too much.

So what am I to do?
Do I see a counselor, and get put on medication for anxiety?
Do I suck it up, and start approaching?
Do I just "wing it", and try to lead anyway?

Its like everything runs smooth until I need to make a move, and then I start getting all of the physical symptoms of anxiety. I start freaking out, and have to end the interaction in fear of looking like a fool.
I already cured my depression by myself. I workout regularly, I am energetic, and I actually am a pretty outgoing guy. I love my life right now, but I still have "no game", and I can't get success with women.
 
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Paulie Walnuts

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Hey man,

I have really bad social anxiety too so I understand your pain. What helped me is forcing myself out of my comfort zone; I.E. massive amounts of cold approaches. Seriously it's fucking terrifying sometimes, but I make myself do it anyway and the anxiety legit gets better and better every time I do!
 
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