I met a girl, we had great sex on first date, we are very into each other

[Dragonetti]

We're planning to meet again soon. question: do I text saying that I had a good time, or do I play it cool?

Might seem trivial but I wanna know the dominant strategy here.

 

[Kaida]

Good job on the lay!

As for your question, definitely the first one.

You guys just had sex. Unless she’s incredibly promiscuous, her mind is probably racing thinking about if you liked it or just fucked and dumped her etc.Text her and say you enjoyed yourself.

Then, if you want to convert her to a regular partner, text her the next day or later that night asking for her schedule.
If shes really enthusiastic when you send the initial text you could even ask her immediately

Be dominant, but in a cherishing way. Sitting back and not showing interest (especially when yall just fucked, and shes not doing anything wrong) is not dominant, its cold. She just gave you what you wanted, so you reward her.

 

[StrayDog]

I always send a morning after text. Always. I keep it short and sweet, and pet her know that I had a Good time with her.

There is no need to play it cool, but at the same time no need to be overly eager.

What you say really depends on the tone and nature of your connection, but it can be anything from a simple "fun times last night" or "last night was " to something more sincere "we really made the most of things. Good spending time" or something slightly more tailored to the connection you shared.

Overall just keep it simple, and be straight forward.

Leaving her hanging or acting aloof will just make her second guess things.

Then, in subsequent texts pace things and let the invite to go for round two come naturally.

You will have to subtly lead the conversation in that direction. Just stay engaged and not overly eager and she will bite

Honestly, if the connection was solid, and you just pace things right, she will more often than not make the suggestion herself.
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