I met a girl on tinder. Cute, kinky, neurodivergent, nerdy, etc. She's like... a broken fairy type. She's lives off of disability (it seems due to mental health struggles).
Nonetheless, we hit it off on Tinder. We have the same interests, sexual and otherwise. We exchange Discord info and start talking and planning a date. On the first attempt, she has something that ends up going too late, and she can't take the bus out to meet. We reschedule for the next day. That day comes and she says that therapy was really rough. I have dated troubled autistic girls, and I am sympathetic. They need a lot of sensitivity and reassurance, so I dialed back usual "game" stuff and tried to be kind and understanding. But I am worried I desexualized myself by offering to be an understanding friend and I'm wondering how to make this date happen w/out being needy
The copypaste of the latest exchange, which started on the day the date was rescheduled:
Nonetheless, we hit it off on Tinder. We have the same interests, sexual and otherwise. We exchange Discord info and start talking and planning a date. On the first attempt, she has something that ends up going too late, and she can't take the bus out to meet. We reschedule for the next day. That day comes and she says that therapy was really rough. I have dated troubled autistic girls, and I am sympathetic. They need a lot of sensitivity and reassurance, so I dialed back usual "game" stuff and tried to be kind and understanding. But I am worried I desexualized myself by offering to be an understanding friend and I'm wondering how to make this date happen w/out being needy
The copypaste of the latest exchange, which started on the day the date was rescheduled:
Her:
Did ya do anything fun today?
Me:
just work lol
which i suppose was fun
Her:
oh thats good at least
Me:
what about you?
Her:
Nothing much, just a depressy day
played games n stuff
in therapy now
Me:
is it like remote therapy?
Her:
yee
and group therapy
i like it in person better tho
i feel more connected to people and able to talk
Me:
oh in person is better for most stuff imo
Her:
yeaaa lol
her:
I'm really sorry again, therapy was really rough and im not doing too well. I gotta raincheck
Me:
oh no
I'm sorry you're going through a rough time
Me:
hey, how are you doing today?
Her:
Hey sorry, still not doing great tbh
Me:
that must be really difficult and shitty
I'm a good listener if you need someone to talk to
Her:
yeah sorry ugh
Me:
How's your day going?
Her:
Its alright, wbu?
Me:
pretty good. I just saw a really good horror movie in theaters last night called Talk to Me, and it inspired me to write some new content for my youtube channel
wanna do something fun tonight?
Her:
sorry i got dnd x3