"I need to talk to my friend real quick"

[readjusting]

Context
I got this one a few times. Mid conversation, the girl's phone was ringing. She would say "Sorry, I need to talk to my friend real quick."
Then she would take a phone call. When it ended, the attraction I built up was visibly evaporated.

What I should do:
- While she's taking the call?
- When she ends the call?

 

[Mr.Rob]

Curiosity,

Its an attainability phenomena that happens to a certain degree. You waiting around patiently for her to the put the phone down is a high chunk of investment on your part.

A lot of times if you're having this happen it means she wasn't all that attracted to you anyway (otherwise she would have muted the phone and kept talking to you). That's okay it could be a good time to give her eye contact for a few seconds into the call and give her a smile and slowly walk away (because you have better things to do than wait for women to finish their phone calls).

Sometimes a girl will truly have to answer the phone that is attracted to you. When this happens typically she'll make an apology of sort prior to answering and tell you to stay with you. At very least she'll indicate she wants you to stay by making eye contact with you in a way that is apologetic and may motion for you to not go anywhere (in which case she is investing in you). In this case you want to put a bored look on your face or even a slightly annoyed look and put a bit of social pressure on her during the phone call.

In all cases if you stick around it is a very good idea to let her re-initiate the conversation. You'll be close enough for her to make it awkward to just leave and then she'll have the burden of moving things forward with you (more investment). Who knows she may even suggest that you take her out!

Keep it pimping man,

-Rob