I need your help at texting guys!

[enjoystick]

Hello there,

Well I was about to ask out a girl. she's a bit flaky and I don't like this. I can tolerate a few things but this one is a big no.
I'm not usually sentimental about girls. if they don't text me back, okey I have lots of things to do. If someone is a flake, okey it's her loss not mine or if someone tells me "I just want to be friends", I tell her "it's okey but I don't want to" and move on. She's like an exception which is a mistake I know I'm emotionally attached to her a bit and I know this kills the seduction. Well, I'm going to show you what happened:

We talked about this weekend a week ago (she'll be free and stuff)

3 days ago

- me: Hey [name]! So this weekend seems good to us.. Perseids... still cool? (she likes watching the stars and stuff; so do I)

She didn't text me back for 2 days, and I exactly know that The busiest person would be able to text me back and you can see messages without opening them.

So I wrote to her yesterday afternoon again: (I was angry at her a little.)

- me: it takes so long to figure out your schedule? or you're just unreliable again.

and she eventually texted me back yesterday night:

- her: hey. so if I don't read my messages for a day, I become immediatly unreliable wow.

- me: I can't state that you're opposite to this based on what you've been doing.

- her: I don't know what preconceptions make you think this ... so be it though.

- me: you're professional at searching excuses and procrastinating.

- her: have fun being superficial. I see you are having fun right now.

- me: I wouldn't say I'm having fun right now but we still could have fun the day after tomorrow.

- her: I don't know how you did think that. you were an asshole and so we can act like nothing happened. whatever. I don't want to talk about this anymore.


How should I respond to this?

Thanks in advance,
Enjoystick

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Yeah, don't insults a girl for not getting back to you, unless you can be teasing about it. You didn't seem teasing about it, you seemed upset. I've done that a few times and it's almost always impossible to recover.

Next time, wait it out. There are particular instances where you can call a girl out for ignoring something, but it's usually only after you sleep with her. This is not one of those situations.

I don't think anything can be done. Perhaps wait a week and send her a, "Hey, how are you?" text and see if you can set up another date. As she said, act like it never happened.

Hector

 

[syst3k]

I agree with Hector

 

[enjoystick]

Thank you Hector!
I will try out your suggestion. as it seems, if you have no idea what to do, it's better to do nothing and yeah, I know it was a bit stronger (what I did) but I dunno if I read about those tactics where you tease the girl about disappearance, to me it's like every single of women who has brain sees your shit and I think it's not my style for example she doesn't text you back and you write her something like "you're the worst texter ever " or someting fake thing like you text her acciddentally (it's not the real you). I'm sure tho you know these stuff.