I never do coffee because it's hard to close

[belmo]

I am a really good closer. Two drinks in I escalate and like... 80 percent of the time and we go home and have sex. I basically only do a bar as first date for this reason.

I matched with a girl on tinder. I invited her out tonight but she was caught up helping her friend preparing for something tomorrow. She counter-offered coffee.

I haven't replied yet. I really only want this for a hookup, since she's just visiting. What's my move for coffee? Is it hard to close?

 

[Will_V]

I am a really good closer. Two drinks in I escalate and like... 80 percent of the time and we go home and have sex. I basically only do a bar as first date for this reason.

I matched with a girl on tinder. I invited her out tonight but she was caught up helping her friend preparing for something tomorrow. She counter-offered coffee.

I haven't replied yet. I really only want this for a hookup, since she's just visiting. What's my move for coffee? Is it hard to close?

What has been your experience that makes you say it's hard to close?

For me it's the same process of deep diving, escalation, building compliance, etc, with a slightly more relaxed and lowkey vibe - it's a fun afternoon getaway not a wild night out.

 

[topcat]

I’ve actually found afternoon coffee dates some of the easiest pulls.

Something about the low-key during-the-day vibes works wonders for building a connection. The chicks also tend to have their guard lowered and be more open to a relaxing afternoon at your place.

Establishing plausible deniability is easier.

 

[ulrich]

You’re probably jumping to conclusions.

Maybe “coffee” doesn’t work for you because you only do coffee as a concession.
Meaning you’re starting with not ideal precedents.

 

[POB]

I’ve actually found afternoon coffee dates some of the easiest pulls.

Agree 100%
Never been a fan of bars for first dates

 

[Skills]

I am a really good closer. Two drinks in I escalate and like... 80 percent of the time and we go home and have sex. I basically only do a bar as first date for this reason.

I matched with a girl on tinder. I invited her out tonight but she was caught up helping her friend preparing for something tomorrow. She counter-offered coffee.

I haven't replied yet. I really only want this for a hookup, since she's just visiting. What's my move for coffee? Is it hard to close?

I always do coffee even if 1 am I just like it cause associate with low pressure in her head...I don't even drink coffee, I just say just to have a quick meet to see if the vibe is there, we bounce somewhere else from there... All my dates are coffee dates now a days...