I only kiss girls for first time when I am in their place/they are in mine rule.

[razir110]

I need your opinion here..

I have this habit of only going for the kiss if the girl invited me to hers or if she is at mine. I do it because I think that if I kiss her before, it will de-escalate the situation
, put her in protective mode and it will be very difficult to take her home afterwards. Also, the way I see it is if I kiss her and then we don't sleep that night, my chances of meeting her again for a date or something are lower. She can start to overthink, feel nervous etc.

At the same time I feel like I miss out sometimes, like a few days ago I had a clear chance to kiss her, but there were a bunch of her friends around and everyone would see us. I am pretty sure she wouldn't come home with me after that. So I tried and tried to take her home but she would object quite a lot. So I decided to let her go and dont go for the kiss. We scheduled a date for next few days. Do you guys think this is correct thing to do? Or If I see I can't get her home, but I can get the kiss, should I go for the kiss then?

Thank you!

 

[Fuck This]

Re: I only kiss girls for first time when I am in their place/they are in mine r

I don't abide by the "no kisses during escalation" rule. However I use tongue sparingly. Those early kisses are going to have room to become more passionate and should invite the girl to increase the heat. My kino becomes bolder during this time, and the kiss is my signal to begin extraction to a suitable location.

I can think of one time at closing time I engaged in a make out at a bar near closing time, and lost the girl to her friends as we were signing out our CC's. I turned around and she was gone. I had her number and she had mine. I later think that she or her friends creeped my Facebook profile by searching the number. My point being, If a girl is out "with the girls" and they traveled together to the venue, they will want to leave together. Either make a plan to get her after they all part ways (in a larger group), or go with the group (no more than 2 of them) to satisfy the T.hird W.heel G.irl (who didn't plan on hooking up) that she didn't get cheated out of her night with her friend. You are going to have to get the TWG home and in bed before you continue the escalation on your target girl.

In another case like the one I just mentioned, that meant a stop at another bar, then walking back to third wheel's house and having 2 more bottles of wine until she staggered off to her room leaving us alone.

and in that social situation it is very important that the first kiss be discreet and away from judgmental eyes....