I realised something... :-)

[ashutosh]

This is an experience i want to share with all the beginners like me. I hopelessly fell for a girl. Even though i was reading this site i still acted needy and desperate. As a result she rejected me. That rejection suddenly motivated me. I turned from a nice guy to a 'geniune bad boy'.
Eventually girls started to give me attention like crazy. I became popular. I let go the mindset of 'onetitis' and developed that of abundance.
At present the girl who rejected me is starting to fall for me. Now shes the one costantly calling and flirting with me.
From all this i realised a *GOLDEN NUGGET * for beginners like me "The moment you think of a girl as special before u become lovers than frankly ITS OVER".
And the lessons of this site can improve your life like crazy.

 

[Stranger]

Can you provide more details on the things you changed changing from a nice guy to a bad boy?

 

[ashutosh]

https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-girls-bad-boys
https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-n ... inish-last
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secre ... etter-jerk
these posts will help you. Along with this i adopted the mindset of "i dont give a shit" that will surely help you.

 

[Stranger]

https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-girls-bad-boys
https://www.girlschase.com/content/why-n ... inish-last
https://www.girlschase.com/content/secre ... etter-jerk
these posts will help you. Along with this i adopted the mindset of "i dont give a shit" that will surely help you.

I have read these, I just wanted more details from a person who tried it first hand. Besides the "don't give a shit attitude", what did you stop doing? and what did you start doing? thnx

 

[ashutosh]

Besides that attitude i stopped worrying and started to live life in th moment. Its a great experience to learn fro both ends of spectrum.
1st i was a typical nice guy and now.trying to be a jerk. The key here is to take positives.from both sides and really become a genuine man.
I became more lively like talking to strangers on the street without any fear, and adopted the principle of
Just do it" in all area of life. As chase said 'a powerful man does what he thinks is right without thinking of consequences' .....

 

[Chase]

Ash-

From all this i realised a *GOLDEN NUGGET * for beginners like me "The moment you think of a girl as special before u become lovers than frankly ITS OVER".

Dead on. When you're new, this is usually a death sentence for a seduction.

Things you can do to eliminate it: if you start over-thinking on a girl, get your thoughts on some other girl who's a less likely prospect for you to end up with, and imagine what it'd be like to be with her instead. The girl you like better you'll actually end up having fewer emotions towards, and a better chance of ending up with.

The more you think about her, the harder it gets to get together with her. So, dial down how much of that you're doing.

Chase

 

[ashutosh]

Hey chase just wanted to say today was my b'day. And it was just amazing to see how my female friends were coming from all over the places to wish me. Not jst females but even my male friends are starting to respect me. When i compare myself to that skinny,shy and introverate guy from last year, its just good to see that though slowly but my life is improving for better.
For that thank you very much.