I really want the ebook so here's one post

[Anonymous]

I am realizing that the game of relationships with women is just as important as socializing as a whole. I am timid and antisocial. I want to be a social person and have girls after me and vice versa so I have to climb the socializing mountain and change. It's scary as heck. About 2 months ago I found chasegirls and started reading... actually this brings up my memory of how I found it. I had tried to contact my "only one" again, after nearly 5 years of bs. I had confidence when I met her but then my life changed and I became depressed. She didnt want me. Anyways I was googling "I cant forget about this girl" and ended up at the article on the site named "I cant stop thinking about her". I read it and the stuff about being called into the world series when you never played baseball and other things taught me that I didn't have the skills necessary for relationships at this point. But, to be honest, the only reason I started trying to contact my "one" again this year (after 5 years of bs rejection) was because I started working out and have confidence. This girl chased me for 9 months 5 years ago and Ive spent the last 4 years chasing her. I really kinda lost all my confidence and got out of shape and became a mopey complainer though, which makes sense why she wouldnt like me. Anyways I started to change that stuff and also reading the "cant stop thinking about her" article teaches me that hard work is involved for this change. This stuff is good for teaching me how to speak with people in life and also with girls. However this is hard work and I am lazy by nature. There are many answers here and ways to build skill. Thanks sincerely, you helped me jump the "cant stop thinking about her" hurdle for now, I just gotta keep working on myself.

 

[Rattler55]

After five years, I would really let it go.

I believe it is not healthy to think of this girl as the only one. There are plenty of other women out there and thinking of this girl will only make you feel bad.

Best of luck.

 

[northstar08]

I am realizing that the game of relationships with women is just as important as socializing as a whole. I am timid and antisocial. I want to be a social person and have girls after me and vice versa so I have to climb the socializing mountain and change. It's scary as heck. About 2 months ago I found chasegirls and started reading... actually this brings up my memory of how I found it. I had tried to contact my "only one" again, after nearly 5 years of bs. I had confidence when I met her but then my life changed and I became depressed. She didnt want me. Anyways I was googling "I cant forget about this girl" and ended up at the article on the site named "I cant stop thinking about her". I read it and the stuff about being called into the world series when you never played baseball and other things taught me that I didn't have the skills necessary for relationships at this point. But, to be honest, the only reason I started trying to contact my "one" again this year (after 5 years of bs rejection) was because I started working out and have confidence. This girl chased me for 9 months 5 years ago and Ive spent the last 4 years chasing her. I really kinda lost all my confidence and got out of shape and became a mopey complainer though, which makes sense why she wouldnt like me. Anyways I started to change that stuff and also reading the "cant stop thinking about her" article teaches me that hard work is involved for this change. This stuff is good for teaching me how to speak with people in life and also with girls. However this is hard work and I am lazy by nature. There are many answers here and ways to build skill. Thanks sincerely, you helped me jump the "cant stop thinking about her" hurdle for now, I just gotta keep working on myself.

Dude, I can definitely relate.

I discovered girlschase about 6 months ago and I think it is easily the best PUA site that I know of, especially for someone who wants to transform their very being on their way to become stellar with women.

Being fixated on one woman really sucks, and I've been in that situation many times in my life. The simple solution to that is to meet more beautiful women, regularly, and that will quickly make the woman you've been pining for, much less relevant.

 

[northstar08]

To introduce myself, I am a 22 year old guy who recently graduated college with a degree in economics, and I have a shy and quiet personality, can be awkward in social situations, and I have a long ways to go to become the kind of person I really want to be when it comes to attracting women. I am a virgin too, haven't had a very active social life in years, and have suffered borderline depression for a while, but instead of dreading what I missed out on, I intend to look forward and see where I can go from here. I am also uncertain about what I want for a career, but that's a separate matter, and now I'm working part time at an office. Basically I'm trying to get my life back together on a good footing, and improve my social skills and my skills with women.

My goal is to be able to attract and charm any woman I want, and to master these skills by the time I'm 25 (which would be in 2 and a half years). I hope that's a realistic timetable. If any advanced members have any advice to give me in my situation, that would be great. I do have Chase's e-book about getting women to chase, and I have Spellbinding, but so far I haven't started any serious efforts yet. The Newbie assignment looks fun and fairly simple, so I will definitely try to complete that and see where I go from there.

I do know that before anything else, I need to build some solid fundamentals, since I have issues with confidence, which is why I think that e-book which comes with making two quality posts would be so helpful for me. Hope I qualify

 

[Anonymous]

That sounds great northstar08, you definitely have a plan going for you. I am working on similar skills as well and it can get tiring in the beginning, gotta stay motivated!

 

[Just_Dave]

Thanks sincerely, you helped me jump the "cant stop thinking about her" hurdle for now, I just gotta keep working on myself.

Hey Remember,

Dealing with similar problems and girlschase is a fantastic resource. Just keep building yourself up and working on things and you'll achieve your desires.