I turned into a oneitis

[sn350]

I have turned into a oneitis.

I did very good picking up this one girl a few months ago.
I started talking to her a lot last month.
Too much and she is now in another country.
I started feeling emotions for her before being sexual.
She felt it.
I almost try to force her into liking me emotionally when she already liked me.
We talked sexual stuff and flirted but in between all this I started to like her.
she mentioned she will not start anything on the internet. But will see after we meet.
we agreed we will talk once a month.
Not sure how well that will turn out but its the best way.
I got a little angry with her and a bit emotional with her.
I'm not usually like this.

My question is... Is it okay if I send her a quick message on facebook.
not being needy nor trying to win her back.

I'm talking to a few other girls, but I like this girl.

Or

Do I just keep waiting and see if she texts back.

My intentions tell me to lose her. And if she wants to get a hold of me she will.
On the other hand I wanna tell her something.

Not sure what to do.

 

[Rasta]

Here's a thought:

Don't message her for a month. Instead, go out and meet women every single week. Then, a month from now, reassess your feelings and go from there.

 

[sn350]

Okay. So I can reasses myself, but do you think I should first text her?
I don't want to lower my values with her.
But at the same time... Wouldn't want her to forget about me.

 

[Thinkingenigma]

Okay. So I can reasses myself, but do you think I should first text her?
I don't want to lower my values with her.
But at the same time... Wouldn't want her to forget about me.

No, dude. If she texts you that's fine, but don't worry about her forgetting about you. Honestly, at this point, that might be a good thing. If she forgets about you and after a month you come back with a bang, she won't soon forget that. As it stands, take Rasta's advice, and just let her go for now.

 

[sn350]

Thanks to guys. I knew those were coming.
I just had to hear it.