Met a girl last week. I scheduled the date for today at 7.
The Date
We leave our residence hall and start heading to Ben & Jerry's. I pay for the ice cream and we sit down and start talking. We're there for about 1hr. I'm deep diving her and trying to use sexual frames (still a little uncomfortable with sex framing, need to practice this some more). I say she has the body of a dancer. She says she is a twerk master. I tell her I need to see that for myself. We finish our ice cream and head back to the residence hall. I invite her to my room for a movie to which she accepts. When we get to my dorm, I tell her to kick off her shoes. She does and we start to watch Tropic Thunder. I start to physically escalate, and I got her to remove her jacket, shirt, and bra. I'm in! I pull her on top of me and start making out with her some more. She has a great body! Very slender, nice boobs, and long hair. She suddenly stops and looks at the t.v. I can tell she's not into it. I ask her what's wrong. She says she wanted to stop before we go to far. I say "Look I like you and you like me, so why don't we just do it?" She says she wouldn't feel right about that in the morning. She starts to put on her clothes. I walk her to her dorm room and she says she had a good time tonight. I say OK and we should hang out next week. She says Ok.
The Aftermath
I'm pretty disappointed to say the least. This would have been my 1st new lay of the semester. I've been at a sticking point (one of those comfort zones that PrettyDecent and Zphix mentioned in their post) and only been sleeping with a few of the girls I met last year. I might have been able to get farther had I persisted but last minute resistance kills my momentum plus I told my roommate I'd be done by 10 (it was 10:15 at the time). I might need to get comfortable being more sexual during conversation with girls maybe start using the sex talk that Alek mentioned in https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-u ... e-and-mood. Don't think I'd be comfortable using sex talk though. Well, any advice is appreciated.
The Date
We leave our residence hall and start heading to Ben & Jerry's. I pay for the ice cream and we sit down and start talking. We're there for about 1hr. I'm deep diving her and trying to use sexual frames (still a little uncomfortable with sex framing, need to practice this some more). I say she has the body of a dancer. She says she is a twerk master. I tell her I need to see that for myself. We finish our ice cream and head back to the residence hall. I invite her to my room for a movie to which she accepts. When we get to my dorm, I tell her to kick off her shoes. She does and we start to watch Tropic Thunder. I start to physically escalate, and I got her to remove her jacket, shirt, and bra. I'm in! I pull her on top of me and start making out with her some more. She has a great body! Very slender, nice boobs, and long hair. She suddenly stops and looks at the t.v. I can tell she's not into it. I ask her what's wrong. She says she wanted to stop before we go to far. I say "Look I like you and you like me, so why don't we just do it?" She says she wouldn't feel right about that in the morning. She starts to put on her clothes. I walk her to her dorm room and she says she had a good time tonight. I say OK and we should hang out next week. She says Ok.
The Aftermath
I'm pretty disappointed to say the least. This would have been my 1st new lay of the semester. I've been at a sticking point (one of those comfort zones that PrettyDecent and Zphix mentioned in their post) and only been sleeping with a few of the girls I met last year. I might have been able to get farther had I persisted but last minute resistance kills my momentum plus I told my roommate I'd be done by 10 (it was 10:15 at the time). I might need to get comfortable being more sexual during conversation with girls maybe start using the sex talk that Alek mentioned in https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-u ... e-and-mood. Don't think I'd be comfortable using sex talk though. Well, any advice is appreciated.
