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duke1998

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Hey I came up with a great idea to get them to chase me. I'll become a rapper and once I become at least semi-famous they'll just run towards me. The good thing about is that I don't have learn or do anything PUA-wise. It's hard to get girls to chase you when there's nothing for them to chase. When you're just a regular guy, an accountant, a banker or some other average career, there's nothing to set you apart from everyone else. I feel as a regular guy I don't stand out from the crowd. I have to act like a maniac, be entertaining and that's what will attract them towards me. You have to become KNOWN at least semi-known. Become popular and then they'll run after you. Let me if you have any feedback or know anybody who did it this way.
 

Zoro

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Being a musician definitely has it's perks, so you're half right.

But a musician with no game will still have fail to get laid much, and a musician who only does it for the women is a pretty empty person.

Be a rapper because you genuinely want to...
Learn game because it's worth it.
 

ulrich

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Nah, you're totally missing the mark.

So basically your reasoning is: "I don't want to learn PUA tactics, let me find something more difficult that doesn't translate well into getting girls... that surely will help me get girls..."

A CHARISMATIC accountant, banker or anything mops the floor with any semi-famous rapper every day of the week.
And becoming charismatic is much easier, faster and less competitive that suceeding in the music industry.

Bottomline: Don't look for "alternative" ways to get results just because you don't like the ways that work.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Vision

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Hey I came up with a great idea to get them to chase me. I'll become a rapper and once I become at least semi-famous they'll just run towards me. The good thing about is that I don't have learn or do anything PUA-wise. It's hard to get girls to chase you when there's nothing for them to chase. When you're just a regular guy, an accountant, a banker or some other average career, there's nothing to set you apart from everyone else. I feel as a regular guy I don't stand out from the crowd. I have to act like a maniac, be entertaining and that's what will attract them towards me. You have to become KNOWN at least semi-known. Become popular and then they'll run after you. Let me if you have any feedback or know anybody who did it this way.

Oh cool dude... how long do you think it'll take for you to become a semi-famous rapper?
 

Beck Bass

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So basically your reasoning is: "I don't want to learn PUA tactics, let me find something more difficult that doesn't translate well into getting girls... that surely will help me get girls..."
Lol pretty much, learning basic game and getting some pussy with it is way easier than competing with the 10 million other Soundcould rappers that started last week...
I produced electronic music for more than 5 years, and got pretty decent at it, only for my YouTube channel to get hacked and me lose the little following that I had. Then I just started feeling like it was too much work and there was thousand of better producers with better music than me that already had a big following, I was fighting a losing game to start with.
I did it for a long time because I genuinely enjoyed it, but eventually I just lost the passion, so I quit. I feel like rapping is even worse because the barrier for entering the game is, technically, even less than producing, in terms of skill (though you have to expose yourself, at least your voice, so dunno). But by what OP described, I feel like he's largely understimating how much work and time it takes to be even on the "semi-famous" level... Not to mention how little pussy he will actually get from it, specially considering he refuses to learn even basic game, so he'll will only get with girls that pretty much throw themselves into him (ugly fangirls? no idea if even those go that far).
 

ulrich

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Lol pretty much, learning basic game and getting some pussy with it is way easier than competing with the 10 million other Soundcould rappers that started last week...
I produced electronic music for more than 5 years, and got pretty decent at it, only for my YouTube channel to get hacked and me lose the little following that I had. Then I just started feeling like it was too much work and there was thousand of better producers with better music than me that already had a big following, I was fighting a losing game to start with.
I did it for a long time because I genuinely enjoyed it, but eventually I just lost the passion, so I quit. I feel like rapping is even worse because the barrier for entering the game is, technically, even less than producing, in terms of skill (though you have to expose yourself, at least your voice, so dunno). But by what OP described, I feel like he's largely understimating how much work and time it takes to be even on the "semi-famous" level... Not to mention how little pussy he will actually get from it, specially considering he refuses to learn even basic game, so he'll will only get with girls that pretty much throw themselves into him (ugly fangirls? no idea if even those go that far).
I am not a big fan of rap but it doesn’t strike me as an attractive genre for pretty feminine women.

R&B on the other hand…
 

Warped Mindless

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You want to put a bunch of time, effort, and money into becoming a well known rapper so you feel worthy to what? Get attention from women who mostly have nothing going for them in life but going to work, watching Netflix, and posting to many selfies on social media?
 

Tim Iron

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Semi-famous rapper? Are you a troll or something close to that?
 

DeepShadow

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@Warped Mindless it could become a brainstorming page about it to collect the best ones. If we wanted to, we could open other brainstorms about something else. Anyway I will try them. They look promising and I like them
 

pancakemouse

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Hey I came up with a great idea to get them to chase me. I'll become a rapper and once I become at least semi-famous they'll just run towards me. The good thing about is that I don't have learn or do anything PUA-wise. It's hard to get girls to chase you when there's nothing for them to chase. When you're just a regular guy, an accountant, a banker or some other average career, there's nothing to set you apart from everyone else. I feel as a regular guy I don't stand out from the crowd. I have to act like a maniac, be entertaining and that's what will attract them towards me. You have to become KNOWN at least semi-known. Become popular and then they'll run after you. Let me if you have any feedback or know anybody who did it this way.
I actually did coaching for a semi-famous rapper. In fact, he was a guy I listened to in high school.

Among his fans, he would kill it. He would go to a show and have two to three girls lined up for afterwards.

When he gamed as his real identity, with girls who didn't know who he was, he got nothing.

That's why you need game.
 

ferrero

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Yo yo yo it’s the new track from the one and only duke1998… world premiere y’all this forreal (to the tune of chamillionaire’s “ridin’ dirty”:

They see me trollin’, they hatin’
Slow gamin’, tryin’ to fame my way to pussy
Tryin’ to fame my way to pussy
tryin’ to fame my way to pussy

My game is so lousy, I’m getting SEMI-KNOWN brah,
I’m hoping that I can try to fame my way to pussay
tryin’ to fame my way to pussy
tryin’ to fame my way to pussy


Shiiiiiet brah, you’re on your way to your first tens of followers, consider me a fan!
 

Chase

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I actually did this from 2002-2006.

Pros: if you really do work at it for YEARS, you can get pretty good, assuming you get through that period of sucking donkey balls where everyone is hating on you because of how bad you are at the beginning. Once you are at that point 3-4 years in (after 3-4 years of DEDICATED refinement of your style, lyrical abilities, and beat-making, assuming you make your own beats) where you've started getting good, and you unleash a verbal barrage in front of chicks, they get very attracted.

Cons: once you get good, you then realize how much better you would need to be to get actually famous. Then on top of that you realize you need to get signed to a major label, which means a very distinctive voice/style and a distinctive angle the label can use to market you. Then once you realize you are 4 years in and it will probably take another 4 years to get somewhat famous, you start looking at the lifestyle famous people lead and you realize a lot of them have horrible lives where they are going crazy, getting sucked into drug problems, getting run by managers who bleed them dry, and have zero privacy in their personal lives and legions of haters everywhere. Plus girls just being attracted doesn't lay them on its own. Most girls don't even know you rap, either... it's not like you can walk around in your daily life rapping everywhere (I mean I guess you could in theory, but...).

Anyway, tl;dr, at four years in, after rapping on stages in front of crowds and having people go nuts and people telling me I was going to be on the radio/famous, I said "fuck all that noise" and signed up for a pickup bootcamp and never looked back.

Let me just tell you, it took me a lot less time to get girls from learning to pick up girls than it did from learning to rap.
 
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