Improve confidence when being with girl

[alwaystrouble]

First - I'd like to say hello
This is my first post, I am glad that I finally found a forum that I think is what I was looking for.

EDIT: I've edited this because I talked too much about myself instead of my problem. The real problem I wanna to fix is to be more confident with girl. I am confident when talking with via phone, texting etc. On the other hand when we are alone, I am afraid of intimacy sooo much.
What technique could I use to improve my confidence?

Regards
Thank you!

 

[happynanako]

I am not an expert but there are some pointers from me.

First you could do a personality test to determine if you are introvert or extrovert.

I think investing a lot into texting will affect your confidence in real person. In texting , you tend to plan out a fine thinking whereas in real life. Not all situation are the same and you might face any other possible issues.

I think you should find opportunity to have phone calls. You can bond more through phone call and show that you are comfortable and have all topics to talk about.

Another tip, never share everything through text, try to know it through phone calls (due to covid, can ask about it and clarify more in person) or in person.

Most importantly, read up areas of interest that you have. You can do from general studies or watch interesting videos from youtube which you realised could be useful for conversation.