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Hi guys, I went out a lot to night clubs over the weekend. There were a few notable two sets I'd like feedback and advice on what I could have done better.
Set 1 | Got approached and struck out very quickly
I was on the dancefloor waiting for my wing while he was at the bar, there were two chicks that walked over and placed themselves next to me. I glanced at them and made eye contact with the hotter one of the two, she approached me and said I love your hair, I complimented her hair back while touching it, she smiled and said thanks while looking at me expectantly with big doe eyes.
I went to take her hand to which she quickly pulled it away saying it’s a vape. I say confidently I don't want your vape. She still pulled her hand away clutching her vape saying no, takes her friends hand to start dancing and says I'm dancing with my friend closing their circle and excluding me. Very confusing, if she didn't want anything to do with me why bother opening?
Set 2 | Strong SOI, curve ball to change targets, excluded
There was a two set, a red head and a blonde chick. The blonde looked at me a couple of times and we exchanged warm smiles, it seemed like an obvious SOI/AI. I recognised a guy near them and went to talk to him, mid conversation my eyes met the blonde chicks' eyes again, it seemed like a strong connection, I took her hand, she gave me it and I gave her a twirl. We danced a bit, the red head was standing like a spare part, I took her hand and danced with both chicks moving them around.
Surprisingly the blonde chick pulled her hand away where the red head didn't, I opted to change target. The guy I was talking to tried making a move with the blonde but got nowhere, I was still in set with the red head. I put my hands on her waist which she seemed excited about at first, after 10 seconds or so she pulled my left hand of her waist but was happy to keep my right hand on her. Not long after this she went back to the blonde chick where I was excluded while they danced with each other. I tried hanging in set but ejected to not look needy.
Set 3 | Halloween | Got approached and failed again
Another two set, a fat chick and a hot chick. They both open me telling me my costume is amazing, I thank them and tell them that their costumes are awesome and touch them both on their arms. The hot one asks me what she's dressed as, I know what she's dressed as to which she has a big smile. I end up taking both of their hands to dance with both chicks which seems to be going well until one of their chick friends comes over and starts dancing with the hot chick leaving me with the fat one I wasn't interested in anyway.
I kept in set dancing with her to not be so blatantly rude of immediately walking away now the hot chick wasn't dancing with me. We danced for maybe a minute and the fat chick tells me she's just got to check on her friends, jumped to the far side of their group, and looked like she had no intention of coming back, the first bit of good luck I had! Later I got dancing with another hot chick which went nowhere but shortly after this fat chick popped back up again. I'm assuming preselection but I still wasn’t interested in the fat chick.
@ulrich these are some examples of reactions I've got with being approached but i can't convert to results. I've got better examples where I'm unable to interact which I'll write up
Warrior
Set 1 | Got approached and struck out very quickly
I was on the dancefloor waiting for my wing while he was at the bar, there were two chicks that walked over and placed themselves next to me. I glanced at them and made eye contact with the hotter one of the two, she approached me and said I love your hair, I complimented her hair back while touching it, she smiled and said thanks while looking at me expectantly with big doe eyes.
I went to take her hand to which she quickly pulled it away saying it’s a vape. I say confidently I don't want your vape. She still pulled her hand away clutching her vape saying no, takes her friends hand to start dancing and says I'm dancing with my friend closing their circle and excluding me. Very confusing, if she didn't want anything to do with me why bother opening?
Set 2 | Strong SOI, curve ball to change targets, excluded
There was a two set, a red head and a blonde chick. The blonde looked at me a couple of times and we exchanged warm smiles, it seemed like an obvious SOI/AI. I recognised a guy near them and went to talk to him, mid conversation my eyes met the blonde chicks' eyes again, it seemed like a strong connection, I took her hand, she gave me it and I gave her a twirl. We danced a bit, the red head was standing like a spare part, I took her hand and danced with both chicks moving them around.
Surprisingly the blonde chick pulled her hand away where the red head didn't, I opted to change target. The guy I was talking to tried making a move with the blonde but got nowhere, I was still in set with the red head. I put my hands on her waist which she seemed excited about at first, after 10 seconds or so she pulled my left hand of her waist but was happy to keep my right hand on her. Not long after this she went back to the blonde chick where I was excluded while they danced with each other. I tried hanging in set but ejected to not look needy.
Set 3 | Halloween | Got approached and failed again
Another two set, a fat chick and a hot chick. They both open me telling me my costume is amazing, I thank them and tell them that their costumes are awesome and touch them both on their arms. The hot one asks me what she's dressed as, I know what she's dressed as to which she has a big smile. I end up taking both of their hands to dance with both chicks which seems to be going well until one of their chick friends comes over and starts dancing with the hot chick leaving me with the fat one I wasn't interested in anyway.
I kept in set dancing with her to not be so blatantly rude of immediately walking away now the hot chick wasn't dancing with me. We danced for maybe a minute and the fat chick tells me she's just got to check on her friends, jumped to the far side of their group, and looked like she had no intention of coming back, the first bit of good luck I had! Later I got dancing with another hot chick which went nowhere but shortly after this fat chick popped back up again. I'm assuming preselection but I still wasn’t interested in the fat chick.
@ulrich these are some examples of reactions I've got with being approached but i can't convert to results. I've got better examples where I'm unable to interact which I'll write up
Warrior