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Met this girl on bumble. She later told me she had only been with one another man before. On her dating profile she had things like "looking for my soulmate" "no hookups or fwbs". Her profile also said she believed in god. This girl was 20 years old so younger than I am used to. She mentioned at the end of the night she had never gone home with a man the first time they met like that.
Bumble
girl: hi
me: hey, i was just abt to answer the prompt
me: tell me trix, how have guys been treating ya on here?
her: bad its only been 2 days and im over it already lol
her: what were u going to say
me: im sorry to hear that.. but dont fret. im here now and I will spoil it for all the guys
me: i was gonna say I was looking forward to our awesome date
her: mmh i like the sound of that
me: just curious, what are your 2 best qualities unrelated to your looks?
her: now im looking forward to it too
me: we gonna have a great time i can tell
her: Id say my resilience and my humor
her: hbu
me: those are great qualities
me: as for me, my humor and intelligence
her: nicee
her: so what do u do for a living?
me: I put on a mask at night and hunt down evildoers with the power of justice
me: cool, right?
me: just dont tell anyone ok
her:
her: ur secret is safe with me
me: thank u darling i knew u could be trusted
me: listen trix, u seem like a safe girl and someone worth getting to know. im not really on this app often so shoot me a text at xxxx and tell me your name, if i dont get back immediately i am not purposely ignoring u, just busy
her: i texted u lol
Text msgs
her: trix
me: hey trix, whjat are u up to besides thinking of me and smiling?
her: Lmao. i smiled when i read ur text ntg much just chilling at home hbu
me: glad you did cus that was the goal i am working with clients rn
me: tell me trix on a scale of 1-10 how happy are u in life?
her: u dont wanna tell me what u do for work lol
her: 10 hbu
me: i work as a video editor
me: 10 is good, also 10 for me.. but when u eventually get to know me that number gonna go up to a 13 at least
me: whats your schedule like this week?
her: nice im free every afternoon this week.
her: and free all day saturday
her: hbu
me: perfect
me: do you like coffee?
me: if u do lets grab coffee/tea today at 6, we can meet up on the spot and go from there
her: i dont like coffee
her: where in miami do u live? also how tall r u lol. just asking out of curiosity
me: no worries!
me: im 6ft tall, n im next to xx i saw ur in xx right? so instead of coffee ill find a park in between our locations and we can meet there instead, sound good?
her: yes we can!
her: ill let u know around 1 if ill be free for sure later today. because my mom just said she wants me to go somewhere with her so ill let u know
me: sounds good
me: ur mum just wants to take u shoppin so u look perfect for ur sexy latin date
her: Lmaoo
me: tell me trix, how do u love to spend your free time?
her: i like to watch movies, cook, spend time with my loved ones, visit new places, and try new things. can i see a recent pic of u?
me: awesome u seem like my kinda girl.. i hope ur open to having unforgettable adventures
me: *sends pic
me: ur turn
her: mhm ur cuteeee
her: sends pic*
her: heres a weird selfie of me
me: thank u sweetie ur not so bad looking urself so will u be free later today?
her: idk if ill be yet. i might go to xx with my mom at 4-5 idk at what time well come back yet
her: also i just saw a video on tiktok of a man talkin abt height even tho i dont really care about it but does it matter to u lol? ik some people have their preferences
me: (hearted) no worries, we can always reschedule.. i dont have a height preference when it comes to girls personally, i enjoy all shapes and sizes i care more about what the persons like
me: just curious, where do u see urself in 10 years?
her: thats nice. im 5'6 but sometimes i feel like i have long legs and complain about it sometimes when i shouldnt lol
her: as a nurse practitioner, maybe a business in nursin, financially stable, married, with kids hopefully, retire my parents, and healthy and happy
her: hbu
me: (hearted) those are great goals, being a nurse takes a lot of sacrifice i think its vry honest and honorable career. as for me, 10 years from now i want to have seen more of the world and experience more that life has to offer me, be a wiser man at peace and maybe with a family of my own
me: your legs are the first thing i noticed in that picture of u in a dress.. theyre long and meaty and i think thats really fucking sexy
me: whats the best place youve ever visited?
her: aww, thank u!!
her: tbh i dont really have a favorite yet, i gotta travel some more before i answer this question lol bc rn i cant think of any place hbu
her: i might be free later, i dont think im going to xx tbh i kinda wanna do something fun, i have been wanting to go to the movies but i just dont feel like going alone lol my friends are busy working. i want to do something fun, i feel so overwhelmed today for some reason
me: youre welcome
me: lucky for you im the perfect guy if u need to destress lets meet at the park and if the vibe is there we can go from there
her: which park
me: this one *shares address
her: is parking free?
me: yea
her: hum just thinking about it i feel my heart racing lol i always get nervous when meeting someone for the first time
me: thats normal haha i get a little nervous too.. its part of the excitement + i can tell that were gonna have a great connection
her: hum hopefully lol
her: at what time did u say?
me: youll see
me: 6, let traffic die down a little
me: (hearted) wear something cute and casual mama
her: it'd have to be 6:30-7
her: do u believe in god?
me: (hearted) that works for me, and yea i believe in god, altho i dont subscribe to a particular religion
me: you mentioned you liked to cook, what is your favorite kind of food to make for people?
her: well im hatian so i really like to cook hatian food
her: also on ur profile it says ur 26. did u turn 26 this year or ur turning 27 this year?
me: a fellow caribbean im cuban. ive heard amazing things about haitian food but ive yet to try any.. if we hit it off youll have to introduce me to it
me: i turned 26 this year in xx, im an aquarius like u, whens ur bday?
her: Jan 30
her: haitian food is the best lmaoo plus i had a bad experience with a cuban in the past lol he was talking to me but him and his family was racist. so do u or ur family like black ppl?
me: the best huh? youll have to show me
me: (hearted) sorry to hear you had that experience. people can be nasty and ignorant.. i nor my family judge based on someones skin color but their character as a person, as it should be
me: (hearted) ive always found black women to be really sexy
me: (hearted) my first kiss was a black girl i liked in school lol
her: yes the best!!
her: nicee lol thats good to know
me: they say the way to a mans heart is by his stomach
me: tell me trix, how do u like to exercise and stay fit?
her: i know i know lol. hbu. can u cook?
her: used to. but when i was in nursing school i got so stressed that I had to stop going to the gym. and when im stress i gain weight lmao bc i stress eat. now that im done i plan on going back to the gym, but i have a treadmill at home so i can always try to walk for at least 30min every day
her: hbu
her: also do u have an ig
me: i dont use social media, and yea im a decent cook
me: i understand, at least ur still staying active with the walking so thats good. i like to exercise almost every day. i got myself a home gym so i can freedom and accessibility to weights, its the best, maybe we can get a workout together sometime
her: do u live by urself?
me:yea
her: nice
her: man, im nervous. i keep overthinking, oh lord
me: haha its ok cutie
me: were just gonna vibe and get to know each other, no pressure
her: *gif of woman deep breathing* me rn
her: ig im just nervous bc idk what to expectt lmao
me: lol
me: u can expect a great time with a great guy, as I also expect meeting u
me: dont worry, youll be less nervous after we break the ice
her: i almost asked a stupid question lmao
her: ive been out of the dating game for a while lmao
me: youre endearing
me: no i dont bite.. unless u want me to
her: i do
her: im joking lol
her: i was gonn ask if we gonna hold hands but it might be extra
me: id love to hold hands with you
me: how long youve been out of the dating scene?
her: man i been single for a little over a year now lol
her: some men just get on my nerves lmao and i refuse to settle for less than what ik i deserve.. and i downloaded bumble on sunday lmao
me: a whole year? ik it can be frustrating but im glad to know you know your self worth. thats an attractive quality in a woman
me: but i am here now, and ur man troubles are over
her: hopefully lol
her: btw i just started gettign ready
her: ill leave my hosue around 620-630
me: sounds good, likewise
her: *nervous gif*
her:
her: also excuse how i look, my hair isnt done. and i look a lil extra crazy today
her: im ready so i might leave my house a lil earlier
me: sounds good! im on my way!
me: ill let u know when im there
her: i just got there lol. i wanted to get here before u lmao. but i see some signs, i think we will have to pay for parking
me: damn ur quick
me: weekdays is free
her: alright
her: i need to process my thoughts
me:
her:
me: im there in 8
me: sorry traffic a little worse than expected
her: its okay, take ur time lol.
me: im here
So I park, she sends me her exact location, I walk over to her. I greet her, cheek kiss + hug. I am leading our walk and we head towards a shed, I sit on a bench, she asks if I want her to sit next to me or across, I say next to me and she does. We banter a little, I start getting to know her, deep diving her, yada yada. After about 10 minutes I get up and we start walking again.
This time I hold her hand like she wanted me to. i comment on her soft and smooth skin. we walk and talk for a few minutes, until I find an empty hill and we walk to the top. the breeze feels good there, so I sit down and she sits too. we are still interlocking hands, but I am rubbing her arms, putting my arm around her to make a point, and spontaneously kissing her cheek and continuing the convo like nothing happened.
I tell her to lay down with me and we both lay down on the grass, with her head on my chest so we are cuddling. after a minute or two I start kissing her lips. we start making out. I get on top of her and I start dry humping her while we are making out. its around 8pm at this time and the park is closed and empty. I pull her shirt and bra up and I start licking and biting her boob while Im pinching her other one, and I rotate like that. I figured id try to fuck her there so I went to touch her pussy and she stopped me and made a face like not here.
So i told her lets go back to my place and watch a movie. she said she had to be home by a certain time, i told her id be quick with no traffic, to follow me on her car. so we get up and start heading to our car. after we try leaving the park it turns out they locked the exits. im trying to find a way out of there and I end up deadlifting this boulder on the side weighing like 300 pounds so I can try to squeeze around the metal pole. as i almost got through someone came to open the door for us, the old lady was gonna give me a ticket but I convinced her otherwise.
after we leave, I call her on the phone as she's behind me in her car, and I tell her to follow me, and we start bantering about what happened. she was scared thinking we were gonna get in trouble yada yada.
we get to my place. i sit on the edge of my bed with her and we talk a bit, she mentions she cant stay long blah blah and puts an alarm clock for 30 minutes from now. I lay her down on the bed and we start making out again. I start playing with her tits again but she doesnt want to take off her shirt or bra even though shes horny asf. i am dry humping her and making out with her. after i play with her boobs for a little again, i start working my way down her pussy by kissing her belly, lower, lower, she puts her hands on her pussy and I start kissing her thighs, i can smell her horny ass pussy. eventually i put my mouth on her pussy with her leggings still on, but shes still resisting.
I tried to arouse her even more by asking her how wet her pussy was, telling her that I wanted to stretch her tight little pussy and make her cum for me, etc while I am dry humping her or rubbing my thigh on her pussy. I go to take her pants off several times but she doesnt let me. and her leggings are so tight i cant rip them off her in one motion. eventually i get too excited and I ejaculate in my underwear as I lay on top of her. I go to the bathroom and clean up, then get back to bed and we cuddle for a little bit.
oh yeah, I was taking off my pants early on in bed and she was asking me why I was doing that, i just said cus it was hot. later on after I came and we started kissing and humping again I grabbed her hand and put it inside my underwear and she started stroking my dick while I was nibbling on her nipples. she was stroking fast like they do when theyre horny asf, but my dick wasnt getting hard i think because she was being a cock tease for too long. I feel like I am a little shy about taking my dick out with a girl, I think if I wouldve taken my dick out before I had came the first time, and she saw it big and hard that maybe she would not have been able to resist me penetrating her?
I want to try for next times whipping my dick out sooner. thoughts?
I thought earlier that me not showing her my hard cock mightve lost me the lay, but after typing it out im not sure that wouldve really changed things. eventually she only took off her shirt. no bra or pants and I tried several times. I was rubbing her thru her pants and doing my best. i couldve also tried having her suck my dick, and maybe that wouldve enticed her to let me eat her pussy, taking her pants off and giving me a much easier time to penetrate her. several things I couldve done better there in my opinion
perhaps a more skilled seducer couldve handled the lmr better and smoother and gotten the lay there. from this girl's comments she was very inexperienced, wanting to hold hands with me, only being with another guy sexually before. she told me she had never gone home with a guy on the first meet like that. so I assume even if we didnt fuck I am still a stud in her eyes cus no man has enticed her in that way before.
eventually we get dressed after we cuddled for a little. I give her a snack and some water, we chat, she makes jokes that I dont wanna see her again.. I reassure her that I do. I tell her to text me when she gets home, and she leaves
her: thats a long drive lol
me: yea good to reminisce abt our adventure
me: home now?
her: just got home
me: ok
her: thank you for today!
me: ofc! i really enjoyed our time together
her: me too
I forgot to mention, this girl also commented that she knew I liked her and wanted to kiss her from my eyes. Other girls seem to mention this to me, that I communicate with my non-verbals hard. funny thing is with the eyes, i am not doing that on purpose, I am just aroused and thinking of fucking/kissing her when it happens
it seems like when I actually manage to get a girl out on a date with me, the vibes are always great. i never have an issue with projecting the right vibe with these hoes probably cus I am typically horny and want to fuck. With this girl, I went the extra mile in cutting out any little extra things I might say that could have made her think of me as boyfriend material. like for instance when she asked me where I saw myself in 10 years, I made an effort not to make it seem like im looking for a stable traditional family life.
for the second date, I will either invite her straight to my place for a movie or do another small date where I pull her home quick. I made a huge mistake with the last girl I set up a second date with, because I suggested she came over my place and we can cook a meal together and drink some wine... very boyfriendy... even though she accepted, i could tell she had lost some interest, then when I later messed up my texting and she dipped out, she mentioned things getting too serious as part of her walking away, so I know my date idea was not the right place nor time.
[moderator: upgraded to LR -- see update post below]
Met this girl on bumble. She later told me she had only been with one another man before. On her dating profile she had things like "looking for my soulmate" "no hookups or fwbs". Her profile also said she believed in god. This girl was 20 years old so younger than I am used to. She mentioned at the end of the night she had never gone home with a man the first time they met like that.
Bumble
girl: hi
me: hey, i was just abt to answer the prompt
me: tell me trix, how have guys been treating ya on here?
her: bad its only been 2 days and im over it already lol
her: what were u going to say
me: im sorry to hear that.. but dont fret. im here now and I will spoil it for all the guys
me: i was gonna say I was looking forward to our awesome date
her: mmh i like the sound of that
me: just curious, what are your 2 best qualities unrelated to your looks?
her: now im looking forward to it too
me: we gonna have a great time i can tell
her: Id say my resilience and my humor
her: hbu
me: those are great qualities
me: as for me, my humor and intelligence
her: nicee
her: so what do u do for a living?
me: I put on a mask at night and hunt down evildoers with the power of justice
me: cool, right?
me: just dont tell anyone ok
her:
her: ur secret is safe with me
me: thank u darling i knew u could be trusted
me: listen trix, u seem like a safe girl and someone worth getting to know. im not really on this app often so shoot me a text at xxxx and tell me your name, if i dont get back immediately i am not purposely ignoring u, just busy
her: i texted u lol
Text msgs
her: trix
me: hey trix, whjat are u up to besides thinking of me and smiling?
her: Lmao. i smiled when i read ur text ntg much just chilling at home hbu
me: glad you did cus that was the goal i am working with clients rn
me: tell me trix on a scale of 1-10 how happy are u in life?
her: u dont wanna tell me what u do for work lol
her: 10 hbu
me: i work as a video editor
me: 10 is good, also 10 for me.. but when u eventually get to know me that number gonna go up to a 13 at least
me: whats your schedule like this week?
her: nice im free every afternoon this week.
her: and free all day saturday
her: hbu
me: perfect
me: do you like coffee?
me: if u do lets grab coffee/tea today at 6, we can meet up on the spot and go from there
her: i dont like coffee
her: where in miami do u live? also how tall r u lol. just asking out of curiosity
me: no worries!
me: im 6ft tall, n im next to xx i saw ur in xx right? so instead of coffee ill find a park in between our locations and we can meet there instead, sound good?
her: yes we can!
her: ill let u know around 1 if ill be free for sure later today. because my mom just said she wants me to go somewhere with her so ill let u know
me: sounds good
me: ur mum just wants to take u shoppin so u look perfect for ur sexy latin date
her: Lmaoo
me: tell me trix, how do u love to spend your free time?
her: i like to watch movies, cook, spend time with my loved ones, visit new places, and try new things. can i see a recent pic of u?
me: awesome u seem like my kinda girl.. i hope ur open to having unforgettable adventures
me: *sends pic
me: ur turn
her: mhm ur cuteeee
her: sends pic*
her: heres a weird selfie of me
me: thank u sweetie ur not so bad looking urself so will u be free later today?
her: idk if ill be yet. i might go to xx with my mom at 4-5 idk at what time well come back yet
her: also i just saw a video on tiktok of a man talkin abt height even tho i dont really care about it but does it matter to u lol? ik some people have their preferences
me: (hearted) no worries, we can always reschedule.. i dont have a height preference when it comes to girls personally, i enjoy all shapes and sizes i care more about what the persons like
me: just curious, where do u see urself in 10 years?
her: thats nice. im 5'6 but sometimes i feel like i have long legs and complain about it sometimes when i shouldnt lol
her: as a nurse practitioner, maybe a business in nursin, financially stable, married, with kids hopefully, retire my parents, and healthy and happy
her: hbu
me: (hearted) those are great goals, being a nurse takes a lot of sacrifice i think its vry honest and honorable career. as for me, 10 years from now i want to have seen more of the world and experience more that life has to offer me, be a wiser man at peace and maybe with a family of my own
me: your legs are the first thing i noticed in that picture of u in a dress.. theyre long and meaty and i think thats really fucking sexy
me: whats the best place youve ever visited?
her: aww, thank u!!
her: tbh i dont really have a favorite yet, i gotta travel some more before i answer this question lol bc rn i cant think of any place hbu
her: i might be free later, i dont think im going to xx tbh i kinda wanna do something fun, i have been wanting to go to the movies but i just dont feel like going alone lol my friends are busy working. i want to do something fun, i feel so overwhelmed today for some reason
me: youre welcome
me: lucky for you im the perfect guy if u need to destress lets meet at the park and if the vibe is there we can go from there
her: which park
me: this one *shares address
her: is parking free?
me: yea
her: hum just thinking about it i feel my heart racing lol i always get nervous when meeting someone for the first time
me: thats normal haha i get a little nervous too.. its part of the excitement + i can tell that were gonna have a great connection
her: hum hopefully lol
her: at what time did u say?
me: youll see
me: 6, let traffic die down a little
me: (hearted) wear something cute and casual mama
her: it'd have to be 6:30-7
her: do u believe in god?
me: (hearted) that works for me, and yea i believe in god, altho i dont subscribe to a particular religion
me: you mentioned you liked to cook, what is your favorite kind of food to make for people?
her: well im hatian so i really like to cook hatian food
her: also on ur profile it says ur 26. did u turn 26 this year or ur turning 27 this year?
me: a fellow caribbean im cuban. ive heard amazing things about haitian food but ive yet to try any.. if we hit it off youll have to introduce me to it
me: i turned 26 this year in xx, im an aquarius like u, whens ur bday?
her: Jan 30
her: haitian food is the best lmaoo plus i had a bad experience with a cuban in the past lol he was talking to me but him and his family was racist. so do u or ur family like black ppl?
me: the best huh? youll have to show me
me: (hearted) sorry to hear you had that experience. people can be nasty and ignorant.. i nor my family judge based on someones skin color but their character as a person, as it should be
me: (hearted) ive always found black women to be really sexy
me: (hearted) my first kiss was a black girl i liked in school lol
her: yes the best!!
her: nicee lol thats good to know
me: they say the way to a mans heart is by his stomach
me: tell me trix, how do u like to exercise and stay fit?
her: i know i know lol. hbu. can u cook?
her: used to. but when i was in nursing school i got so stressed that I had to stop going to the gym. and when im stress i gain weight lmao bc i stress eat. now that im done i plan on going back to the gym, but i have a treadmill at home so i can always try to walk for at least 30min every day
her: hbu
her: also do u have an ig
me: i dont use social media, and yea im a decent cook
me: i understand, at least ur still staying active with the walking so thats good. i like to exercise almost every day. i got myself a home gym so i can freedom and accessibility to weights, its the best, maybe we can get a workout together sometime
her: do u live by urself?
me:yea
her: nice
her: man, im nervous. i keep overthinking, oh lord
me: haha its ok cutie
me: were just gonna vibe and get to know each other, no pressure
her: *gif of woman deep breathing* me rn
her: ig im just nervous bc idk what to expectt lmao
me: lol
me: u can expect a great time with a great guy, as I also expect meeting u
me: dont worry, youll be less nervous after we break the ice
her: i almost asked a stupid question lmao
her: ive been out of the dating game for a while lmao
me: youre endearing
me: no i dont bite.. unless u want me to
her: i do
her: im joking lol
her: i was gonn ask if we gonna hold hands but it might be extra
me: id love to hold hands with you
me: how long youve been out of the dating scene?
her: man i been single for a little over a year now lol
her: some men just get on my nerves lmao and i refuse to settle for less than what ik i deserve.. and i downloaded bumble on sunday lmao
me: a whole year? ik it can be frustrating but im glad to know you know your self worth. thats an attractive quality in a woman
me: but i am here now, and ur man troubles are over
her: hopefully lol
her: btw i just started gettign ready
her: ill leave my hosue around 620-630
me: sounds good, likewise
her: *nervous gif*
her:
her: also excuse how i look, my hair isnt done. and i look a lil extra crazy today
her: im ready so i might leave my house a lil earlier
me: sounds good! im on my way!
me: ill let u know when im there
her: i just got there lol. i wanted to get here before u lmao. but i see some signs, i think we will have to pay for parking
me: damn ur quick
me: weekdays is free
her: alright
her: i need to process my thoughts
me:
her:
me: im there in 8
me: sorry traffic a little worse than expected
her: its okay, take ur time lol.
me: im here
So I park, she sends me her exact location, I walk over to her. I greet her, cheek kiss + hug. I am leading our walk and we head towards a shed, I sit on a bench, she asks if I want her to sit next to me or across, I say next to me and she does. We banter a little, I start getting to know her, deep diving her, yada yada. After about 10 minutes I get up and we start walking again.
This time I hold her hand like she wanted me to. i comment on her soft and smooth skin. we walk and talk for a few minutes, until I find an empty hill and we walk to the top. the breeze feels good there, so I sit down and she sits too. we are still interlocking hands, but I am rubbing her arms, putting my arm around her to make a point, and spontaneously kissing her cheek and continuing the convo like nothing happened.
I tell her to lay down with me and we both lay down on the grass, with her head on my chest so we are cuddling. after a minute or two I start kissing her lips. we start making out. I get on top of her and I start dry humping her while we are making out. its around 8pm at this time and the park is closed and empty. I pull her shirt and bra up and I start licking and biting her boob while Im pinching her other one, and I rotate like that. I figured id try to fuck her there so I went to touch her pussy and she stopped me and made a face like not here.
So i told her lets go back to my place and watch a movie. she said she had to be home by a certain time, i told her id be quick with no traffic, to follow me on her car. so we get up and start heading to our car. after we try leaving the park it turns out they locked the exits. im trying to find a way out of there and I end up deadlifting this boulder on the side weighing like 300 pounds so I can try to squeeze around the metal pole. as i almost got through someone came to open the door for us, the old lady was gonna give me a ticket but I convinced her otherwise.
after we leave, I call her on the phone as she's behind me in her car, and I tell her to follow me, and we start bantering about what happened. she was scared thinking we were gonna get in trouble yada yada.
we get to my place. i sit on the edge of my bed with her and we talk a bit, she mentions she cant stay long blah blah and puts an alarm clock for 30 minutes from now. I lay her down on the bed and we start making out again. I start playing with her tits again but she doesnt want to take off her shirt or bra even though shes horny asf. i am dry humping her and making out with her. after i play with her boobs for a little again, i start working my way down her pussy by kissing her belly, lower, lower, she puts her hands on her pussy and I start kissing her thighs, i can smell her horny ass pussy. eventually i put my mouth on her pussy with her leggings still on, but shes still resisting.
I tried to arouse her even more by asking her how wet her pussy was, telling her that I wanted to stretch her tight little pussy and make her cum for me, etc while I am dry humping her or rubbing my thigh on her pussy. I go to take her pants off several times but she doesnt let me. and her leggings are so tight i cant rip them off her in one motion. eventually i get too excited and I ejaculate in my underwear as I lay on top of her. I go to the bathroom and clean up, then get back to bed and we cuddle for a little bit.
oh yeah, I was taking off my pants early on in bed and she was asking me why I was doing that, i just said cus it was hot. later on after I came and we started kissing and humping again I grabbed her hand and put it inside my underwear and she started stroking my dick while I was nibbling on her nipples. she was stroking fast like they do when theyre horny asf, but my dick wasnt getting hard i think because she was being a cock tease for too long. I feel like I am a little shy about taking my dick out with a girl, I think if I wouldve taken my dick out before I had came the first time, and she saw it big and hard that maybe she would not have been able to resist me penetrating her?
I want to try for next times whipping my dick out sooner. thoughts?
I thought earlier that me not showing her my hard cock mightve lost me the lay, but after typing it out im not sure that wouldve really changed things. eventually she only took off her shirt. no bra or pants and I tried several times. I was rubbing her thru her pants and doing my best. i couldve also tried having her suck my dick, and maybe that wouldve enticed her to let me eat her pussy, taking her pants off and giving me a much easier time to penetrate her. several things I couldve done better there in my opinion
perhaps a more skilled seducer couldve handled the lmr better and smoother and gotten the lay there. from this girl's comments she was very inexperienced, wanting to hold hands with me, only being with another guy sexually before. she told me she had never gone home with a guy on the first meet like that. so I assume even if we didnt fuck I am still a stud in her eyes cus no man has enticed her in that way before.
eventually we get dressed after we cuddled for a little. I give her a snack and some water, we chat, she makes jokes that I dont wanna see her again.. I reassure her that I do. I tell her to text me when she gets home, and she leaves
her: thats a long drive lol
me: yea good to reminisce abt our adventure
me: home now?
her: just got home
me: ok
her: thank you for today!
me: ofc! i really enjoyed our time together
her: me too
I forgot to mention, this girl also commented that she knew I liked her and wanted to kiss her from my eyes. Other girls seem to mention this to me, that I communicate with my non-verbals hard. funny thing is with the eyes, i am not doing that on purpose, I am just aroused and thinking of fucking/kissing her when it happens
it seems like when I actually manage to get a girl out on a date with me, the vibes are always great. i never have an issue with projecting the right vibe with these hoes probably cus I am typically horny and want to fuck. With this girl, I went the extra mile in cutting out any little extra things I might say that could have made her think of me as boyfriend material. like for instance when she asked me where I saw myself in 10 years, I made an effort not to make it seem like im looking for a stable traditional family life.
for the second date, I will either invite her straight to my place for a movie or do another small date where I pull her home quick. I made a huge mistake with the last girl I set up a second date with, because I suggested she came over my place and we can cook a meal together and drink some wine... very boyfriendy... even though she accepted, i could tell she had lost some interest, then when I later messed up my texting and she dipped out, she mentioned things getting too serious as part of her walking away, so I know my date idea was not the right place nor time.
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