So I met this girl on the street, we ended up going for dinner the same day (not the previous post I described, this is another one) then started kissing. She was very resistant to come to mine so we left it there. This was last Friday. I tried scheduling a date for the next day, Saturday, but she said she was having dinner with a friend and I could join, I said I want to see her and not the friend, so lets do it another day. I texted today and proposed to go for a drink, she offered today or tomorrow, I said, ok let's go today then, lets meet (close to mine)
And this is when it started to go wrong, she said its far, its a dangerous area (its not.. it has a shit reputation but only a true sissy would actually believe it), I insisted like 4 times in a playful manner for her to come here, but she insisted it would be close to hers. She lives alone, so I thought, ok fine lets meet close to yours then, let's meet at 9pm. She said it was too late, I said you already chose the venue, I chose the time
she insisted it was too late for her and we should meet another day then. I didn't even reply.
So, when a girl starts to dictate the terms of the date like this, is this lack of interest? A shit test? I mean she can take an Uber back home from my area.. if she is really interested she will just do it I guess, and the same applies to the time, who the f cares if we meet at 9 or at 8, if she wants to fuck me she would meet me at 02am, at least that's what I think.
How do you deal with this? Would you allow her to have some of the logistics? Or just insist the date is where u set it when you set it and period?
Now I will just let her make the next move, I see too much lack of investment here..
PS: When we met I said she looked bossy and in fact she did, she even confirmed, I even said "I even know when you like to be dominated.." this sort of talk lol, but yes she does seem to want to dictate everything. I mean I just want to f her so I don't care..
Opinions?
And this is when it started to go wrong, she said its far, its a dangerous area (its not.. it has a shit reputation but only a true sissy would actually believe it), I insisted like 4 times in a playful manner for her to come here, but she insisted it would be close to hers. She lives alone, so I thought, ok fine lets meet close to yours then, let's meet at 9pm. She said it was too late, I said you already chose the venue, I chose the time
she insisted it was too late for her and we should meet another day then. I didn't even reply.So, when a girl starts to dictate the terms of the date like this, is this lack of interest? A shit test? I mean she can take an Uber back home from my area.. if she is really interested she will just do it I guess, and the same applies to the time, who the f cares if we meet at 9 or at 8, if she wants to fuck me she would meet me at 02am, at least that's what I think.
How do you deal with this? Would you allow her to have some of the logistics? Or just insist the date is where u set it when you set it and period?
Now I will just let her make the next move, I see too much lack of investment here..
PS: When we met I said she looked bossy and in fact she did, she even confirmed, I even said "I even know when you like to be dominated.." this sort of talk lol, but yes she does seem to want to dictate everything. I mean I just want to f her so I don't care..
Opinions?
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