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Kvothe

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So this is from yesterday. Approached her telling her she looked amazing. We talked a bit, and she was very flattered. She actually suggested we grab a drink, because she had an hour before her exercise class she had to teach. I said sure, and suggested we walk down the street until we found a place that looked interesting.

We walk, and it's very much her talking more than me. She's done acting, small jobs, and seems like a very busy, fast paced kind of girl. She's 28 to my 24, and it's mostly her just giving me her life story. I was in a very sad mood, due to some recent sad events. This gave me a vibe where she was talking, and for some reason she seemed more interested in talking, and seemed to be trying to impress me. I ended up talking about living at home, and about my upbringing. This allowed me to talk about slut shaming for the first time, and how people (especially girls) don't feel free to express themselves truthfully. I said this sucked. In the future I need to keep going by talking about how girls enjoy sex, and possibly get more enjoyment from it than men do, assuming it's with the right man ;). I also talked about how I liked being single and wasn't ready for the journey to end.

At one point, I set a frame that she loved cute, brown boys, and she qualified saying it was actually because of how bold I was.

She kept talking about herself, and I led it pretty well.

Walked her to her class, and she almost walked into a car, which I grabbed her and pulled her back, and she said I saved her life. I should have used this to ask (jokingly) whether I got a hero's kiss for doing so.

Don't expect I'll see her again, but was a good experience and got to practice a milder version of sex talk as I build up to more complex stuff.

Touched her strategically, as we were not sitting in a way that allowed for easy touching. But she was very open to me touching her legs and hands.
 
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Derek da man

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Why don't you expect to see her again? Most exercise classes happen weekly so she may be back same time same place next week.

You didn't day if you ran into her at the gym or out and about etc but maybe you'll run into her again.

You just never know
 
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Kvothe

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Honestly, I'm just not that interested in seeing her again haha. She was cool, but I just was not in the right headspace to be meeting a girl that day, and while it was fun, I'm not that interested in a day 2 with her.

Also she didn't respond to my last text.
 
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