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Hello,
I have looked through the articles and found some related posts but am stuck on something that I can't seem to get past with a lot of girls. This is a situation I recently experienced:
- Matched with girl on dating app
- Got phone number
- Called her and set up date to grab drinks
- We grab drinks
- Take her back to my place and we have sex
- Text her the next day (she seems very interested)
- Try to set next date up
- Girl stops responding to texts
Here is a paraphrase of the texts after sex:
If this was a one time deal I would not be bothered by it and figure something happened on her side that I didn't have much control over. But because this kinda stuff is consistently happening to me I believe there is something I am doing wrong with my texting. Any observations and criticisms are very much appreciated.
I have looked through the articles and found some related posts but am stuck on something that I can't seem to get past with a lot of girls. This is a situation I recently experienced:
- Matched with girl on dating app
- Got phone number
- Called her and set up date to grab drinks
- We grab drinks
- Take her back to my place and we have sex
- Text her the next day (she seems very interested)
- Try to set next date up
- Girl stops responding to texts
Here is a paraphrase of the texts after sex:
Code:
Me [Tue 2:25 pm] - Just woke up and I feel way better. Sorry for keeping you up all night.
Her [Tue 3:45 pm] - I just got out of bed. Don't feel sorry it was fun
Me [Tue 4:23 pm] - Awesome, I had a good time too. You are free the rest of the week?
Her [Tue 5:26 pm] - Theoretically
Me [Tue 5:48 pm] - Lol what does that mean?
Her [Tue 5:57 pm] - I always end up doing something whether it is planned or not
Me [Tue 6:13 pm] - Well I'm free tomorrow and I have been itching to go to [local restaurant]. Want to join me?
Her [Tue 7:35 pm] - Ehhhh I'm okay. Seems basic to be honest.
Her [Tue 7:35 pm] - What is the friend you know who knows [her friend]. Im with [her friend] rn
Me [Tue 9:14 pm] - Lol alright. His name is [my friend].
Her [Tue 9:21 pm] - I'm gonna make haianese chicken at some point if you want to join me in eating that.
Me [Tue 10:13 pm] - Yeah that sounds great, when?
Her [Tue 10:23 pm] - No idea. Maybe the day after tomorrow. Thursday? Tomorrow I'm eating bulgogi.
Her [Tue 10:23 pm] - And then friday I'm eating hot pot. My meals are very exciting.
Me [Wed 12:07 am] - Definitely more exciting than my chipotle diet. Yeah I think Thursday works for me.
Me [Wed 12:07 am] - Never had haianese chicken before
-- no response --
Me [Wed 6:03 pm] - So is tomorrow confirmed?
Her [Wed 7:26 pm] - unfortunately no
Me [Wed 7:38 pm] - Lol alright. Get busy or what?
Her [Wed 7:50 pm] - It's my last day with [her friend]
Me [Wed 8:01 pm] - Oh no is [her friend] leaving for good?
Her [Wed 8:11 pm] - [her friend] is going back to a flight school and wont be back until after I'm gone. Sad
Me [Wed 8:22 pm] - Well I hope you get to spend some good time with [her friend].
Me [Wed 8:22 pm] - Maybe on the weekend we can do something then.
-- no response --
Me [Sat 12:23 pm] - Hey [her name], hope your week ended well. Your schedule pretty open for this weekend and next week?
-- no response --If this was a one time deal I would not be bothered by it and figure something happened on her side that I didn't have much control over. But because this kinda stuff is consistently happening to me I believe there is something I am doing wrong with my texting. Any observations and criticisms are very much appreciated.
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