What's new

Interesting (maybe) predicament - your thoughts please

Orgasmatron

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Aug 13, 2021
Messages
309
Hey dudes,

So, I’ve got a small predicament to get some advice on please.

I met this girl, Diana, my Romanian Princess, the other week and she’s had to postpone our date twice due to work commitments, and I bumped into her today in the town.

So, she works security at the new shopping mall, and I bumped into her outside while she was at her work. We had a fun chat and she explained they are very short-staffed at the moment and she’s had to cover lots of shifts for people and does a lot of nightshifts, so she’s genuinely not got much time atm, but she’s looking forward to the date, and wants to be wide awake for it and not feeling like a zombie after a 12 hour night shift. We had a good laugh and I’m pretty sure the date is 100% on when she’s free. So that’s all good.

But she told me that she is in the control room for a lot of her job watching the people in the mall on the CCTV cameras, y’know security stuff.

However, I’ve been going in there to try to chat up girls. We are meant to be wearing masks, but some people aren’t bothering in the main mall bit, outside the shops.

And I’ve been going around, without a mask, trying to chat to the attractive female rebels, who are also going sans mask, and using my opener: “hey, you’re not wearing a mask… We’ve got something in common!”

It gets a laugh and seems to be a good way in.

So anyway, I can’t very well keep doing that now that I know she might very well be watching, and will spot me, looking shifty and approaching girls without a mask.

I quite like her, she is slim, pretty, and seems like fun. Plus, I’m very confident that, after today’s performance, we are totally on for the date and more!

So I don’t want to put my foot in it quite yet.

Do you think I should keep day-gaming in the mall?
Or cool it there for a bit.


Side note: she’s quite stern with members of the public (all sweetness and smiles when she turns around and chats to me again of course), so that could be interesting!


Cheers guys!
 

ulrich

Modern Human
Modern Human
Joined
Oct 21, 2019
Messages
1,760
Never been in that situation myself but my gut tells me that you better stop gaming in that place.

Maybe you could game a little if you’re super discreet (like two targets max) and avoid the shop workers because sometimes the employees know each other but I would just look for another place.
Discretion is important.
 

Starboy

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Apr 2, 2018
Messages
490
Hey dudes,

So, I’ve got a small predicament to get some advice on please.

I met this girl, Diana, my Romanian Princess, the other week and she’s had to postpone our date twice due to work commitments, and I bumped into her today in the town.

So, she works security at the new shopping mall, and I bumped into her outside while she was at her work. We had a fun chat and she explained they are very short-staffed at the moment and she’s had to cover lots of shifts for people and does a lot of nightshifts, so she’s genuinely not got much time atm, but she’s looking forward to the date, and wants to be wide awake for it and not feeling like a zombie after a 12 hour night shift. We had a good laugh and I’m pretty sure the date is 100% on when she’s free. So that’s all good.

But she told me that she is in the control room for a lot of her job watching the people in the mall on the CCTV cameras, y’know security stuff.

However, I’ve been going in there to try to chat up girls. We are meant to be wearing masks, but some people aren’t bothering in the main mall bit, outside the shops.

And I’ve been going around, without a mask, trying to chat to the attractive female rebels, who are also going sans mask, and using my opener: “hey, you’re not wearing a mask… We’ve got something in common!”

It gets a laugh and seems to be a good way in.

So anyway, I can’t very well keep doing that now that I know she might very well be watching, and will spot me, looking shifty and approaching girls without a mask.

I quite like her, she is slim, pretty, and seems like fun. Plus, I’m very confident that, after today’s performance, we are totally on for the date and more!

So I don’t want to put my foot in it quite yet.

Do you think I should keep day-gaming in the mall?
Or cool it there for a bit.


Side note: she’s quite stern with members of the public (all sweetness and smiles when she turns around and chats to me again of course), so that could be interesting!


Cheers guys!
Yeah bro if you don't want her to notice you approaching girls at the mall then just don't approach at that mall. She catches you there's a chance she auto rejects you because she thinks you're just a player who approaches girls all the time and she's not special to you. If you're really into her and she's very into you like you say then don't risk it.
 

Orgasmatron

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Aug 13, 2021
Messages
309
Never been in that situation myself but my gut tells me that you better stop gaming in that place.

Maybe you could game a little if you’re super discreet (like two targets max) and avoid the shop workers because sometimes the employees know each other but I would just look for another place.
Discretion is important.

Thanks man.

Yeah, I thought that was probably the right answer.

It was good bumping into her today for lots of reasons, this new info included.

Thought it was kinda funny

I'll just pass on the mall for the time being
 

Orgasmatron

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Aug 13, 2021
Messages
309
Yeah bro if you don't want her to notice you approaching girls at the mall then just don't approach at that mall. She catches you there's a chance she auto rejects you because she thinks you're just a player who approaches girls all the time and she's not special to you. If you're really into her and she's very into you like you say then don't risk it.

Thanks man,

I'll just do my business elsewhere for a while
 

PalmaSailor

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Nov 24, 2019
Messages
272
Hey dudes,

So, I’ve got a small predicament to get some advice on please.

I met this girl, Diana, my Romanian Princess, the other week and she’s had to postpone our date twice due to work commitments, and I bumped into her today in the town.

So, she works security at the new shopping mall, and I bumped into her outside while she was at her work. We had a fun chat and she explained they are very short-staffed at the moment and she’s had to cover lots of shifts for people and does a lot of nightshifts, so she’s genuinely not got much time atm, but she’s looking forward to the date, and wants to be wide awake for it and not feeling like a zombie after a 12 hour night shift. We had a good laugh and I’m pretty sure the date is 100% on when she’s free. So that’s all good.

But she told me that she is in the control room for a lot of her job watching the people in the mall on the CCTV cameras, y’know security stuff.

However, I’ve been going in there to try to chat up girls. We are meant to be wearing masks, but some people aren’t bothering in the main mall bit, outside the shops.

And I’ve been going around, without a mask, trying to chat to the attractive female rebels, who are also going sans mask, and using my opener: “hey, you’re not wearing a mask… We’ve got something in common!”

It gets a laugh and seems to be a good way in.

So anyway, I can’t very well keep doing that now that I know she might very well be watching, and will spot me, looking shifty and approaching girls without a mask.

I quite like her, she is slim, pretty, and seems like fun. Plus, I’m very confident that, after today’s performance, we are totally on for the date and more!

So I don’t want to put my foot in it quite yet.

Do you think I should keep day-gaming in the mall?
Or cool it there for a bit.


Side note: she’s quite stern with members of the public (all sweetness and smiles when she turns around and chats to me again of course), so that could be interesting!


Cheers guys!
Ignore it and keep going.

it’s your frame.

If she can’t get her shot together to get out on a date with you then you’ll talk to one that can.

And she better believe it.
 

Orgasmatron

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Aug 13, 2021
Messages
309
Ignore it and keep going.

it’s your frame.

If she can’t get her shot together to get out on a date with you then you’ll talk to one that can.

And she better believe it.

got another one lined up for tomorrow

dental nurse from lithuania - seem to have developed a taste for eastern european cuisine
 

PalmaSailor

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Nov 24, 2019
Messages
272
got another one lined up for tomorrow

dental nurse from lithuania - seem to have developed a taste for eastern european cuisine
Well done. Keep it moving. Abundance mindset, and abundance in practice.

Do what YOU want to do. Don’t tailor that to anyone else, lest of all some slot that can’t even get her arse in a pair of jeans to go on a date with you.

no matter the excuse.

you better believe if you were clooney shed have got off shift. But she didn’t, bc you didn’t inspire the attraction. Lessons there.

she snoozes she loses

fuck her
 

Orgasmatron

Space Monkey
space monkey
Joined
Aug 13, 2021
Messages
309
Well done. Keep it moving. Abundance mindset, and abundance in practice.

Do what YOU want to do. Don’t tailor that to anyone else, lest of all some slot that can’t even get her arse in a pair of jeans to go on a date with you.

no matter the excuse.

you better believe if you were clooney shed have got off shift. But she didn’t, bc you didn’t inspire the attraction. Lessons there.

she snoozes she loses

fuck her

okay, I see what you're saying

you're absolutely right

ahhhh, that's another cog turned in my brain

thank you mate

i need to buy you a pint at some point
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

OldGuy

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Jun 10, 2017
Messages
173
The only women who turned me down the first time I asked them out who did go out with me (in 20 years experience) were those who said they had a boyfriend. You may get the fake boyfriend as excuse if you keep asking, but on the first time request, I see the boyfriend as second thought, i.e. I'm interested, but should I risk my current BF...
 
Top