Long-Term Intimacy in front of her family

[Kezarin]

Hey all,

I’ve been in a great relationship for about 4 months now, it’s been great. Her and I are very touchy feely and always exchange hugs and kisses of all types. I’m going to meet her mother and sister for the first time now, and she told me while she loves it, they may not like to see it, so maybe we should kiss in private instead (japanese family) and that even her sister and her bf don’t kiss, only on the cheek, at least when my girl is around them (which I found weirdly distant).

So what is the best course of action? This girl is actual wife material, so I am inclined to take this seriously. Of course I won’t french her in front of her family, but I don’t know if just not kissing her at all would be the right thing to do, especially since she also loves it.

Any thoughts are appreciated!

Cheers,
Kezarin

 

[empath]

Hey all,

I’ve been in a great relationship for about 4 months now, it’s been great. Her and I are very touchy feely and always exchange hugs and kisses of all types. I’m going to meet her mother and sister for the first time now, and she told me while she loves it, they may not like to see it, so maybe we should kiss in private instead (japanese family) and that even her sister and her bf don’t kiss, only on the cheek, at least when my girl is around them (which I found weirdly distant).

So what is the best course of action? This girl is actual wife material, so I am inclined to take this seriously. Of course I won’t french her in front of her family, but I don’t know if just not kissing her at all would be the right thing to do, especially since she also loves it.

Any thoughts are appreciated!

Cheers,
Kezarin

I would probably avoid getting obviously sexual in front of her family. Not because the women said it to me but as a way to respect her family and their culture, also no point making her feel embarrassed in front of her mom.

Meanwhile you can be suggestive and sexual non-verbally, let the tension build between you two until she can't contain it anymore, you will get one of the best sex later. Just keep amping her temprature, it's a different kind of seduction.

Also, Nothing distant about it, PDA is not common in asia or rather it's more like a taboo especially in older generation.

 

[Kezarin]

I would probably avoid getting obviously sexual in front of her family. Not because the women said it to me but as a way to respect her family and their culture, also no point making her feel embarrassed in front of her mom.

Meanwhile you can be suggestive and sexual non-verbally, let the tension build between you two until she can't contain it anymore, you will get one of the best sex later. Just keep amping her temprature, it's a different kind of seduction.

Also, Nothing distant about it, PDA is not common in asia or rather it's more like a taboo especially in older generation.

Empath,

Gotcha! Yeah, as time went on I did think about it, kissing her in front of her mom when she said she doesn’t like that would just be a stupid move, and socially uncalibrated in my opinion. Thank you!

Cheers,
Kezarin