Introduction

[philowolf]

Hi.... I am Philowolf

I am a uni student in wales and I know jack all about getting laid.

I have recently discovered that my life long problems with making friends and maintaining a social life may be due to me having Asperger's,ADD and learning difficulties ect.

I also come from a somewhat religious Muslim background (i am an atheist) and i am also on a ex muslim site where they recomened richard la ruina and RDX Max but i didn know how to apply what they said other than the walk slower in nightclubs, which did increase my interactions with people but no flirting with girls.

i lost my virginity this year (i am a first year retake) with a girl i met via whisper but that was a one off and i got lucky. The next best thing i ve got was a number of a really drunk girl in a club at the bar when i complemented her tattoos, but found out she has boyfriend, which i suspected, and it lead nowhere. More importantly, I only complemented her tats in a drunkin impulse and was not that into her and she was not one of the girls i was interested in that night. I also hate seeing girls iam attracted to at my uni out and about during the day and at clubs andit pisses me off.

there was also a girl on my course who i like but my flat mate said that he feels based of the texts that she may see me just as a friend and if she does not text first in the next few weeks than this is likely true,,,,which so far is happening.

ive also got tinder gold but so far only matched with girls that iam not that into.

so...any adivce welcome.

Ive got exams iam revising fo so iam trying to focus on those fo the time being but will try and follow any advice.

 

[philowolf]

Oh and ive already made the mistake of asking a girl out for drinks via fb that ive never met in person before so i guse its not a good idea to message girls ive added on Instagram via their tinder profiles before getting matched with them? i kinda have more than a few girls i want get with?

the only positive ive got is my one night stand did complement my size and foreplay skills but i am not sure if they where just being nice

oh and too more things..is there such thing as out of your league?

 

[philowolf]

of finally, Ive been told Mark Mansons Models is a must read??

 

[Seppuku]

More importantly, I only complemented her tats in a drunkin impulse and was not that into her and she was not one of the girls i was interested in that night. I also hate seeing girls iam attracted to at my uni out and about during the day and at clubs and it pisses me off.

oh and too more things..is there such thing as out of your league?

Yes!

All girls will know intuitively, within the first thirty minutes of interacting with you, where you stand with girls: i) a poor sexless chap who never fucks anyone, except once in a very while by pure luck, or ii) a guy extremely busy fucking tons and tons of girls. My words are a little crude but it is basically true. Needless to say, they all prefer the second type (even if they say otherwise). Once they get such a guy, their next objective is to tame him and turn him into a gentle pet, but this is another discussion.

Needless to say, the most beautiful girls have their pick among the multitude of guys who hit on them. A guy who is not at the right level (read type ii) virtually stands no chance... Except maybe very rarely by pure luck. So if your game is not sharp, let's say your chances with the most beautiful girls are very low. By and large these girls will be out of your league. I suspect that's the case for these girls you're into, and who go to the clubs at night.

I realize my very first girlfriend was a beauty, and I was a clueless virgin. On the other hand I was almost 22 when I met her, so assuming I started trying myself at girls at age 13... that means once in 9 years sort of chance. (She was 19 and also a virgin, which helped. If she had been experienced, it would have been a tougher luck for me).

So it really all depends on what you want to achieve here. If you just want to get a beautiful girlfriend, just hit the most beautiful ones. It may take you a few (or many) years but you would finally get one. But if you really want to learn to be good with girls, then you should enlarge your scope and hit the barely-cute-and-above. Yes, that includes these girls that you are not that much into (unless they're really plain, hahaha). Your goal will be to score as much experience, as fast as you possibly can... And slowly work up the chain towards prettier girls. If you're dedicated, you could work your way to decent level within two or three years. The advantage when you get there is, when you meet a really beautiful girl you stand a fighting chance! It won't be a matter of luck anymore, at least not as much.

Oh and ive already made the mistake of asking a girl out for drinks via fb that ive never met in person before so i guse its not a good idea to message girls ive added on Instagram via their tinder profiles before getting matched with them? i kinda have more than a few girls i want get with?

To me none of this is really a mistake. Why would you think so?

Seppuku

 

[philowolf]

I want to get a beatifull girlfriend....but i think its wise to get better with women in genral and then not be a fish out of water with the girls i want.

Ive learnt form my mistakes a bit i should say

 

[Inowtakethelead]

I want to get a beatifull girlfriend....but i think its wise to get better with women in genral and then not be a fish out of water with the girls i want.

Do you have hairgel? I gel my hair. You should buy some. It will convey that you care about your looks. Not looking like you got out of bed.

 

[philowolf]

Ive got hair putty

 

[philowolf]

Also....iam a nerd. Not the biggest one out there or whatever but still a nerd.

And ive managed to get liked back by a girl on tinder that i like....trying to see how it goes

 

[philowolf]

Well turns out when I snap chated the girl of tinder she denies knowing me or liking me via tinder.

 

[philowolf]

So could someone tell me where to start or what process i need to go through on girlschase or any mentors in wales?