Investment

[HoofHearted]

Hello team,

There are girls of whom I do not give a concern toward whether they come or go.

There are others, seemingly the ones I desirr most, that sometimes feel like an arrow to the dick when they go.

Please tell me your best on this matter. How do we fight it down?

I am still a beginner. It seems like the women I really desire most can end up owning me sometimes. How can this script be flipped?


Thanks again for your input.

 

[Conquistador]

How can this script be flipped?

Abundance is probably a good place to start. Not just vis-a-vis women but yourself and your overall life.

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

Hello team,

There are girls of whom I do not give a concern toward whether they come or go.

There are others, seemingly the ones I desirr most, that sometimes feel like an arrow to the dick when they go.

Please tell me your best on this matter. How do we fight it down?

I am still a beginner. It seems like the women I really desire most can end up owning me sometimes. How can this script be flipped?


Thanks again for your input.

I’d say you need to have your mindset right in order to not be too effected by when a high value women leaves. If you know your worth and your worth is high in your mind, you may not like that a high value women left, but it won’t be the end of your world because you know the good things you have going on and you know that their are always more high value women out there. If your not confident in your abilities to pull high value women consistently, then be confident that your work ethic will bring you to that position if you continue on the path.

I know that before things were official with my girlfriend, I went on a date with this girl that was the most attractive girl I’d ever dated. It didn’t work out with her and what prevented me from being too upset was realizing that this person was a regular, mundane person. Sure she was attractive but that attractiveness didn’t make her better than other people. She still eats, sleeps, and shits like a normal human. Viewing her as normal (because she is normal) made the rejection very easy to accept. It’s like if a kid doesn’t like the color blue, can you be mad at the kid for not liking color blue, no, it’s his personal preference. Attraction is a game of personal preferences among two people. Try out this way to frame rejection the next time it happens to you and tell me if it works or not

best,

BHL