Is being in open relationships the secret to getting lots of women?

[Shake&Bake]

Think about it. Most of the core tips or themes from this website are being non needy and not chasing women. And I don't think that's something most men can do consistently very easily. Why have like 20 times the testorone of women make us like 50 times more hornier. Top it off with that fact that we can't easily get laid to cure a dry spell. So most of us are going to be a little thirsty because women are extremely fickle and want you to make all the moves. So unless you are highly physically attractive or have hella game its gonna be extremely hard getting those women to have sex with you.

So I think I thought of the perfect solution. Open relationships? Why? Because you got a girl at home you can fuck at anytime. So let's say you're on a date and you can't deal the deal with the girl on a date. You still can go home and fuck that girl at home. Now the obvious hard part is finding the schedule with the girl Because she might be with other dudes. But it's a start. Then you eventually have more open relationships to make when you get more women.

And at that point I'm guessing you don't even need to push for sex like that anymore. You can just hang back and chill.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I always feel it’s better to have something on the side at all times, especially as a beginner.

To me it’s the same as a fwb situation.

The only thing you have to watch out for is having unprotected sex with her and getting lazy.

You should only see her once a week or twice the most.

You have to keep going out though.

 

[Shake&Bake]

I always feel it’s better to have something on the side at all times, especially as a beginner.

To me it’s the same as a fwb situation.

The only thing you have to watch out for is having unprotected sex with her and getting lazy.

You should only see her once a week or twice the most.

You have to keep going out though.

Why once a week tho? I have super high sex drive

 

[Velasco]

Why once a week tho? I have super high sex drive

you are not limited to having one fwb

 

[Shake&Bake]

you are not limited to having one fwb

Good point. But girls are already hard enough to get for one

 

[Shake&Bake]

you are not limited to having one fwb

What's your secret for getting fwbs?

 

[Velasco]

What's your secret for getting fwbs?

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[Skills]

Think about it. Most of the core tips or themes from this website are being non needy and not chasing women. And I don't think that's something most men can do consistently very easily. Why have like 20 times the testorone of women make us like 50 times more hornier. Top it off with that fact that we can't easily get laid to cure a dry spell. So most of us are going to be a little thirsty because women are extremely fickle and want you to make all the moves. So unless you are highly physically attractive or have hella game its gonna be extremely hard getting those women to have sex with you.

So I think I thought of the perfect solution. Open relationships? Why? Because you got a girl at home you can fuck at anytime. So let's say you're on a date and you can't deal the deal with the girl on a date. You still can go home and fuck that girl at home. Now the obvious hard part is finding the schedule with the girl Because she might be with other dudes. But it's a start. Then you eventually have more open relationships to make when you get more women.

And at that point I'm guessing you don't even need to push for sex like that anymore. You can just hang back and chill.

That is the right idea, i used to teach that http://www.theskillsmethod.com/my-s...treaks-long-periods-of-time-not-getting-laid/

But to be honest you can be dating 10 girls, and there is 1 that is going to be that one you like and you can get onitis/needy for... Similar to Style in the book the game... But yeah it helps...

 

[Sub-Zero]

Why once a week tho? I have super high sex drive

Because you’ll build an attachment or she will. Idk about right now during these times though. Maybe if you find one you can rock with her for a while.

But if you keep seeing her all the time, it’ll make you lazy.

You’ll think to yourself, why game when I have pussy at home already?

 

[trashKENNUT]

That is the right idea, i used to teach that http://www.theskillsmethod.com/my-s...treaks-long-periods-of-time-not-getting-laid/

I read this article.

I think I know someone who went about this method when I was super young. This is effective. Quite an accurate portrayal of one guy I remember. Morally questionable but we all gotta do what we all gotta do.

He always had a girl longing for him even after that girl is no longer a main chick.

And he occasionally fucks her.

 

[Shake&Bake]

I read this article.

I think I know someone who went about this method when I was super young. This is effective. Quite an accurate portrayal of one guy I remember. Morally questionable but we all gotta do what we all gotta do.

He always had a girl longing for him even after that girl is no longer a main chick.

And he occasionally fucks her.

How did you hear about this guy?

 

[trashKENNUT]

How did you hear about this guy?

He was a schoolmate. Fuck one of my classmates. Haha.

And I always see girls excited about him. Hear him getting laid. Stories of him dating smart and pretty girls. Because he was cool and a social guy but he was very strong on his own. I meet him one and one and there was just idea where you kinda look up to the guy but you don't know what it is.

He was a pretty cool guy. He is very dominant but pretty chill. He was also the smartest boy in the school. He was also great in football. He is that typical senior High school musical guy but he is super cool.

The lessons I can think based on who he was
- be dominant
- super chill

 

[YS.]

COUNTER POINTS:

• If you have a real gorgeous peach totally willing and sweet in your bed, it's really hard to get up and go out to get rejected by a bunch of 6's.
• You'll go into cherish mode. Become loving and submissive.
• You will compare all the random chicks you meet out to your goddess and lose motivation/excitement for them. You may just lose motivation for life in general because you will be rewarded without putting in any work in a stable relationship.
• You might get disillusioned with game. Oneitis and neediness creeps in. Happened to the best of us.
• You will have no need to be on point and amazing anymore. (Especially if you have good frame control, relationship game.)
• She will try to poison drip you, encourage beta male behaviours and reward/validate you for that shit. Continuously corrupting you.

Relationships are very dangerous for most beginner-intermediate PUAs. So many good dudes got trapped by an awesome chick when they weren't ready. People mistake comfort with abundance. I like Julien's rule of no relationships for a year to get better. A relationship can put you more into comfort than abundance if you can't handle it.

Dry spells are great if you don't let it get to your head and identify with it. That's when you have the most emotional leverage and growth.

Don't identify yourself with, or link your value to, how many girls you've fucked or how long your dry spell is. If it's not a big deal to you, it's not a big deal, period. Love ground zero.

Pros and cons my dudes.