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From my understanding seduction community dogma has always been that cold approach is far superior to online. Lately I feel like the tide has changed and now I see even experienced and successful cold approach guys on here cross gaming and getting good with online. Curious what more experienced guys thoughts are here?
BTW this isn't cope post. Ik cold approach works. My last girlfriend and most of the girls i've slept with have come from cold approach. I am just beginning to rethink my dogmatic aversion to online.
In my observation online game is getting less taboo and it seems like the guy/girl ratio is getting better especially on platforms like hinge marketed towards relationships. The quality of girls on there honestly seems to be going wayyyy up - probably city dependent though. I remember in old girlschase article Chase made the claim along the lines that the same guy could get the highest quality of girls from daygame, then nightgame, then online game as the lowest. This was surely true at time, but I think things have changed.
In my experience I think the girls I see and have a chance with from online game are now at least as hot/quality as the girls you'd see in nightgame (unless you're in college or at private party/elite social circle game etc). Honestly I would go so far to say that the quality seems to be higher. The girls I see out at bars are generally less attractive than the ones I match with on dating apps. Even with elite nightgame skills I genuinely don't see that many girls out at all who are better looking than the girls attainable through online game - of course I'm sure this is also partly location dependent. Obviously its much easier to get quantity with online game. Nightgame of course has ONS potential which I suppose is plus. In my generation (gen z) there is not much culture around going out to get laid post-college. If you want to get laid you go on apps is the culture.
Daygame still has better quality and potential to get the all elusive "stunner." However getting a high volume of approaches in daygame is difficult in most cities and usually limited towards warmer months. Most of the girls I end up approaching are about equivalent to who I'd be able to get online - just bc if I didn't approach these girls I'd be doing maybe one approach in 2 hours lol. Seeing the weather change and my "hot-spot" for daygame dry up is what prompted me to start thinking about this - as well as some initial successes using Skills daygame funnel with online. I don't even have fully optimized pictures. I'm starting to question my priorities - perhaps it would be better to spend 2-3 hours going to scenic location and trying to get great picture than spend that time daygaming? I do love the process and getting over my AA and going out to meet girls - its thrilling.
I honestly feel a bit sad even saying this bc for the longest time I've idealized cold approach and hated on online. But maybe the times are changing. Any thoughts?
BTW this isn't cope post. Ik cold approach works. My last girlfriend and most of the girls i've slept with have come from cold approach. I am just beginning to rethink my dogmatic aversion to online.
In my observation online game is getting less taboo and it seems like the guy/girl ratio is getting better especially on platforms like hinge marketed towards relationships. The quality of girls on there honestly seems to be going wayyyy up - probably city dependent though. I remember in old girlschase article Chase made the claim along the lines that the same guy could get the highest quality of girls from daygame, then nightgame, then online game as the lowest. This was surely true at time, but I think things have changed.
In my experience I think the girls I see and have a chance with from online game are now at least as hot/quality as the girls you'd see in nightgame (unless you're in college or at private party/elite social circle game etc). Honestly I would go so far to say that the quality seems to be higher. The girls I see out at bars are generally less attractive than the ones I match with on dating apps. Even with elite nightgame skills I genuinely don't see that many girls out at all who are better looking than the girls attainable through online game - of course I'm sure this is also partly location dependent. Obviously its much easier to get quantity with online game. Nightgame of course has ONS potential which I suppose is plus. In my generation (gen z) there is not much culture around going out to get laid post-college. If you want to get laid you go on apps is the culture.
Daygame still has better quality and potential to get the all elusive "stunner." However getting a high volume of approaches in daygame is difficult in most cities and usually limited towards warmer months. Most of the girls I end up approaching are about equivalent to who I'd be able to get online - just bc if I didn't approach these girls I'd be doing maybe one approach in 2 hours lol. Seeing the weather change and my "hot-spot" for daygame dry up is what prompted me to start thinking about this - as well as some initial successes using Skills daygame funnel with online. I don't even have fully optimized pictures. I'm starting to question my priorities - perhaps it would be better to spend 2-3 hours going to scenic location and trying to get great picture than spend that time daygaming? I do love the process and getting over my AA and going out to meet girls - its thrilling.
I honestly feel a bit sad even saying this bc for the longest time I've idealized cold approach and hated on online. But maybe the times are changing. Any thoughts?
