Is it normal for Mothers try and introduce you to there daughters?

[William Wallace]

is it a boyfriend vibe?

 

[Fuck This]

Probably but it is totally overcome-able. You can joke about it with the girl with the jist being "Your mom wants me to be her son-in-law".

The other tack to take requires real calibration. It's not for someone who is not totally confident in themselves. It is to flirt with the mother. It is a tightrope to not be insensitive to both parties involved. But a joking appreciation of moms good looks and attention on her can trip the daughters competitive instincts. Don't go overboard with it though.

For example...Second or third date...meet the mother and she is teasing me about why her daughter's hip is out of alignment. I knew I could push it with her...

Some mothers and daughters have a closer relationship, and those are the ones where preselection from the mother is a plus. Assess that. If the daughter is kind of rebelling then play the card "hey, you mom thinks I'm a good boy. What she doesn't know won't hurt her..."

 

[William Wallace]

My pride didn't stopped me from taking up the offer.... hahaha and it was just during regular conversation ...

 

[ulrich]

If they have a good relationship, this is actually a great thing.

I know I have lost women because their conservative families won’t have me. You’re starting on the right foot.

One thing to note is that if the mom is doing this, the girl is likely to be shy... maybe that is your type.

 

[William Wallace]

just sorting out some older things that happened 1-3 times and i was curious as to why. it happend before i joined this site so, after my talk with Tony D who said any female interaction i will have is almost gona be postitive for me since ive bascily had none. so i guess next time this happens ill take up the offer

 

[ulrich]

Good.

BTW, remember that this kind of situation puts you in the boyfriend material category.

So you might want to counter that when mom isn’t looking.