Is it unmanly being silly and cute?

[RicoLeon]

My girlfriend tends to put her in face in mine and rub her nose on it like a cute puppy dog, it's silly and cute and I love it. Sometimes I myself do the same to her and she laughs, calls me silly, then kisses me passionately.

I was just curious since girls are the ones who are silly and cute does that mean that I myself being silly and cute would make me less of a man? Is this an umanly act? I don't think so but I'm just curious because what's manly about acting like a puppy dog and rubbing your nose like one in your girlfriends face.

 

[Mike&Ikes]

I think as long as you’re obviously the alpha and you’re giving her good sex, there’s nothing wrong with being a little goofy. I mean, unless she starts disrespecting you and actually TREATS you like a puppy dog, I don’t think you have much to worry about. Just don’t go over the top goofy, you’re a sexy guy, not a clown.

-Mike

 

[foggy]

Are you submitting to her by acting like a puppy dog and rubbing her nose in your face? Depending on the situation yes. Like after she just wooped your ass in a fight, and now you're trying to suck up to her. That's definitely the wrong time to do it.

But if you do it from a dominant frame, and there's no submissive frame behind it... then that's totally cool.

Sounds like she views this act as a way of expressing affection, as she's doing it often. And look.....when you did it to her, she kissed you passionately! She probably thinks you're showing her affection. You should do it back to her right when she does it to you, this is called mirroring and could help strengthen your relationship

 

[Richard]

Fuck no!

Anybody that knows me can tell you that I'm very goofy and silly and my girlfriend absolutely loves it. When times get serious and I need to be the leader I'll drop the silliness for a little while to focus on the problem/issue at hand but after that I go right back to being silly.

It's my way of showing affection and giving a girl attention and it creates an atmosphere that is incredibly easygoing and comfortable. On top of all that, I like to see my girlfriend (and everyone around me) smile and laugh. Very few things require such attention that you can't be silly or goofy

-Richard

 

[RicoLeon]

Appreciate your mindful insights. Made me realize why the fuck can't men be goofy?

Thanks for the feedback!