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Is possible to game this girl or its a dead end?

empath

Space Monkey
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I met this girl on a Friday night and opened her with standard u r cute direct opener and I exchanged insta with her. Made her follow me first.

We didn't had any word apart from exchanging insta because we both were in hurry.

I text her next day in morning (how was her night) when She was online but didn't responded to my text at the moment.

Then I see her profile and send her text according to her interest but she just responds to my earlier message with one word.

I let some time pass and then I see one day she liked my story on insta so I send her a text ( dont recollect but we end up texting for sometime), i tease her and set a chase frame and we play age guessing game (we have 3 year age gap) and i ask her for eating something to which she says ok. (Even on this day she says gn to me saying she is feeling sleepy but was online for sometime later as well)

Then she don't text me for few days, then I suggest her a day but she don't respond to it for few days so then I suggest another day to her, to this text she responds with I will tell you the time.

Then again we don't text each other for few days.

After few days i guess she likes my story and i end up texting her do you who know who is Pinocchio to which she responds yes and then I say it's u ... We text a bit but she don't answer me much I try to confuse her that she is asking me out and it's fine she don't need to be afraid but she don't eat this frame and stop texting me.

Then I send her few text to which she don't respond and i send her this last text are you single?

To which she said that she has a bf so, I stopped texting her.

Now today again she liked my story.

Today she liked my story again and I am confused whether she did it randomly or she wants to talk to me?

Some random facts about her-

Her profile is public profile, around 800 followers.B ut she seems like a normal girl only not an influencer.

She live with her sister only and her parents are in her hometown.

she is just chilling in the city, nor she is working nor studying.

We are from different ethnicity and normally we don't mingle.

I unfollowed her but she remained my follower.

She seems inexperience to me in dating (maybe 3-4 partners) and her insta gives a vibe she just broke up or something

She guessed my age as 20, i am 24 and she is 21 I guess. Idk maybe it's age.

i think I have been too pushy with her or maybe she just gave me her insta in pressure/ heat of the moment. She don't want anything with me.

my insta is not very good though. I prefer to go for numbers generally.

Is there a way to game this girl or this is a lost case and I should give up?

Thinking of asking her are u going through a break up?
 

DarkJedi

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Man you're chasing hard and she's just giving you crumbs. This to me is a lost cause. Move on.

Usually a girl would give you insta instead of a number coz they're not interested. Insta closes don't usually mean much, unless your insta profile is very interesting to her and seeing the profile changes her mind. And yes, it can be used to slow-game her over time if you want to, by posting high-value stories and posts.

In her case though, you've chased too hard and she isn't interested. As for liking the stories, bored girls can still do that sometimes. There are some girls who are very liberal with liking stuff on insta. You don't know her baseline behavior.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

empath

Space Monkey
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@DarkJedi I agree with everything u said. Same was my hunch as well. Better question would be how to game her now. It's been 1/1.5 month since we last interacted. Maybe I should drop you like my stories more than me 😜. It's low investment on my part and I am not hoping to get anything so if she texts back it's a bonus.
 

DarkJedi

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Isn't it just better to move on to other girls? So many on this planet! Getting a girl who's disinterested to be interested in you is 10x difficult than finding a new girl who's into you. She hasn't sound invested at all at any point in the interaction.

you like my stories more than me 😜
Sorry, but this sounds low-value af imo. Like a little boy vying for her attention.

If you REALLY want this to work, it could be if she sees an interesting story from you which she herself texts you about, or maybe if she posts a story and you reply with something relevant that she hooks with.

But honestly, she ain't interested and has a boyfriend. Stop letting her occupy space in your head. Go find some other girls.
 
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