Date Plans Is seeding a date at my place when getting the number a good idea?

[Calibration]

Getting numbers can be a hit or a miss for me, even if the girl is very invested. My go to proposals would be
1. "I'd like to meet you another time". She says ok - I get her number
2. Would you like to meet another time? She says yes - I get her number
3. I'd like to take you out for a drink? (Mostly for latinas) - she says yes - I get her number.

I feel all of these put the girl on the spot and since they've got used to saying no, they'll say no, a lot of times.
Guys here suggested about seeding a date and I looked at this article and it's very good: https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-seed-dates-and-pulls-back-home

However, in all of the scenarios @Chase mentions, I'll be taking her on a date and then pull her home. I don't want to do this for a few reasons:
1. I don't have a lot of activities around me and I feel it's a high investment for both the girl and me. Some girls would love this though.
2. If I suggest drink or coffee, it puts a thought of "date" in her mind which some girls don't like for whatever reason.
3. If I suggest coffee or drink or an activity when I take her number but later I ask her to come over, it'll be incongruent imo. Like tricking her etc
4. Most importantly, I want to skip the hassle of pulling her home from a date. If she comes directly to my place, it's half the job done.

So, I'm thinking if I seed my balcony view when taking the number, would it be a good idea? Is it socially acceptable for HER to agree to exchange contact? Is it a good enough plausible deniability? Any ideas?

 

[TomInHo]

If getting numbers is hit or miss I don't think seeding the date to your place is a good idea in person

Keep it ambiguous when getting the number... "It's been great talking to you, but I have to go do X. Let's hang out another time to continue this"

If she says yes, exchange contact info and then you can see if she is down to come straight to your place based of the vibe from texting. And if this is your angle you should also make sure to make your sexual intent obvious during the initial interaction

 

[HoofHearted]

Buddy, if you can pull her straight home, you ought to!

In my experience, that's kinda the home run (pun intended I guess). If you can consistently do this, you should go make a forum that i can join, and teach me. (Apart from screening for chicks who are super down to fuck. You should stay away from women like this, and report them to me immediately).

I'm no expert, but I think you'll lose a lot of girls this way. Don't get me wrong, what you're describing is hyper efficient and kinda my dream.

But usually if you're pulling a number it happens real quick and then byebye, more work to be done later.

Imo nothing wrong with coffee or drink. They say action dates are best, but I don't do that with people I don't really know, or commit that much time. For you see, as you date for a while, you come to discover some people (women) are pretty fucking boring to hang out with and do not please me. This is the risk you take when meeting new people I guess.

 

[DonGately]

Pulling to a bar/etc for a drink is optimal if you cannot get her home.

 

[Fuck This]

You need good unimpeachable Plausible Deniability to take her directly to your home for a first date. Have you SEEN the Series on Dahmer that is on Tv right now?

halfway into a night out when you are making out and feeling up on each other is a lot easier time to pitch going to your place.