Isolate her or kiss her in front of friends?

[matheth]

Basically this question, to give some context:

I approached this set in a bar, there were 3 girls, 2 0s and one 1 who i got closer to when some absolute social blackhole was making a fuzz with the other 0s. We started talking, deepdiving and she seemed pretty receptive. I applied a good amount of kino (making her touch my tattoo, touching her tattoo, when talking about a bodypart touching her in that same bodypart, and even touching her ear when she told me she had a scar).
She responded pretty well in terms of conversation, asking me questions in moments of silence and also touching me in my shoulder and chest.

At one point i started rubbing the side of her ass with my knee (she was sitting in a pretty tall seat and I was standing, looking her eye to eye) and she didnt back down. At one point her friends kinda left, but only for 10 seconds max, and she got even closer.

Now I feel like I couldve kissed her but missed the escalation window.

I do wanna ask if anybody wants to answer:

Should I have just kissed her even with her friends right next to her?

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

If you're aiming for the kiss, get some privacy between you and the friends.

If you want to kiss her in front of her friends, there's a good chance you'll get push back from them, as well as push back from her.

Adding some context here,

If you're aiming for the bang, a kiss in a public place (isolated or in front of her friends)can decrease sexual tension. It doesn't always, and it depends on your technique and the chemistry developed with the girl. It's really a choice of style, rather than playing probabilities for best outcome.

I personally prefer a 51/49 "mixed signals" approach.

Mixed signals? My Words say no, my actions say yes.

Overall, it depends on your goals, and your understanding of how the pull should go - based on whatever method you're following, and what you like doing.

My approach to group sets is not to "isolate and abscond", but rather to "infiltrate and remain".

1) So you can try to rap to the chick, pry her off, and then "go to the pizza place around the corner" (which can have social circle problems - type of thing where the friends blow up your girls phone/or find you at the club and physically grab her away from you because they see her body language and know she's getting aroused....)

Or

2) You can get used to her friend group, build something there, roll with them, and then when the night is over, the group naturally breaks up - and you can make sure that your girl "gets home safe". (which can also have social circle problems, usually more than the former - the upside is when your girl and your friends are on your side - the bang and subsequent bangs are much easier.)

WIA

 

[Skills]

My approach to group sets is not to "isolate and abscond", but rather to "infiltrate and remain".

^ this is gold! gonna steal that line... never thought about explaining it this way...

 

[Skills]

Basically this question, to give some context:

I approached this set in a bar, there were 3 girls, 2 0s and one 1 who i got closer to when some absolute social blackhole was making a fuzz with the other 0s. We started talking, deepdiving and she seemed pretty receptive. I applied a good amount of kino (making her touch my tattoo, touching her tattoo, when talking about a bodypart touching her in that same bodypart, and even touching her ear when she told me she had a scar).
She responded pretty well in terms of conversation, asking me questions in moments of silence and also touching me in my shoulder and chest.

At one point i started rubbing the side of her ass with my knee (she was sitting in a pretty tall seat and I was standing, looking her eye to eye) and she didnt back down. At one point her friends kinda left, but only for 10 seconds max, and she got even closer.

Now I feel like I couldve kissed her but missed the escalation window.

I do wanna ask if anybody wants to answer:

Should I have just kissed her even with her friends right next to her?

if you think you could have kissed her you should have, with gen z sometimes if you don't kiss can backfire, but op read this post and the links in the post:

Socializing - The fallacy of the point of no return...

The point of no return is a weird seduction concept (one of the worst ones i have seen).... It goes like this: "if you kiss or mess around with a girl and don't close game over" this is flawed strategy but i know were it comes from.... I personally believe the opposite happens and guys lose lays...

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