This has happened a few times to me and I don't know how to at least try to make something happen.
Example from few nights ago:
Im staying at a guesthouse in a national park (as there are no hostels). Its pretty remote and first 2 nights, the few other guests were older hikers.
My last day at the guesthouse, 2 girl travellers arrived and the owners of the guesthouse pretty much forced me to meet them while they were still in their room. The owners hardly speak english so it was bit of a random but funny introduction.
I told the girls that I would be outside chilling in the garden if they wanted to join.
They did join and we had a fun convo for about 2 hrs but where I struggled was:
How to isolate 1 from the other and show sexual intent.
It feels strange to invite them to my room because it doesnt solve the problem of isolation. We were also alone outside anyway.
I did bring up sexual topics and it was fun for them, but dont really know how to escalate when its both of them there.
I dont think a threesome was ever on the table and I think overall the chance of something happening were low, but it annoys me that I felt like I didnt know how to even try.
Example from few nights ago:
Im staying at a guesthouse in a national park (as there are no hostels). Its pretty remote and first 2 nights, the few other guests were older hikers.
My last day at the guesthouse, 2 girl travellers arrived and the owners of the guesthouse pretty much forced me to meet them while they were still in their room. The owners hardly speak english so it was bit of a random but funny introduction.
I told the girls that I would be outside chilling in the garden if they wanted to join.
They did join and we had a fun convo for about 2 hrs but where I struggled was:
How to isolate 1 from the other and show sexual intent.
It feels strange to invite them to my room because it doesnt solve the problem of isolation. We were also alone outside anyway.
I did bring up sexual topics and it was fun for them, but dont really know how to escalate when its both of them there.
I dont think a threesome was ever on the table and I think overall the chance of something happening were low, but it annoys me that I felt like I didnt know how to even try.