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Isolating 2 girl friends from each other

orkie123

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This has happened a few times to me and I don't know how to at least try to make something happen.

Example from few nights ago:

Im staying at a guesthouse in a national park (as there are no hostels). Its pretty remote and first 2 nights, the few other guests were older hikers.

My last day at the guesthouse, 2 girl travellers arrived and the owners of the guesthouse pretty much forced me to meet them while they were still in their room. The owners hardly speak english so it was bit of a random but funny introduction.

I told the girls that I would be outside chilling in the garden if they wanted to join.

They did join and we had a fun convo for about 2 hrs but where I struggled was:

How to isolate 1 from the other and show sexual intent.

It feels strange to invite them to my room because it doesnt solve the problem of isolation. We were also alone outside anyway.

I did bring up sexual topics and it was fun for them, but dont really know how to escalate when its both of them there.

I dont think a threesome was ever on the table and I think overall the chance of something happening were low, but it annoys me that I felt like I didnt know how to even try.
 
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@orkie123,

One option you have for situations like that is to just continuously escalate on both girls until one of them either begs off or it is clear it is on with both. The begging off happens like so: one of the girls is getting more and more into it -> other girl says "Well, I'm getting tired, I think I'm going to head to bed" -> leaves you alone with the one who is into it.

Check out the section on threesomes on GC. We have a bunch of different guides there, some of which cover escalating on two girls:


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orkie123

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@orkie123,

One option you have for situations like that is to just continuously escalate on both girls until one of them either begs off or it is clear it is on with both. The begging off happens like so: one of the girls is getting more and more into it -> other girl says "Well, I'm getting tired, I think I'm going to head to bed" -> leaves you alone with the one who is into it.

Check out the section on threesomes on GC. We have a bunch of different guides there, some of which cover escalating on two girls:


Thanks Chase. The annoying thing is that 2 days later, one of the girls msged me in a way that clearly shows there was interest.

I struggle when travelling in some situations (bad logistics etc) to have reasons to get compliance, and also to show sexual intent.

In this situation, there was little chance of leaving the guesthouse (there is nothing nearby, they were in their PJs). I could have convinced them for a night drive, but not sure it would have helped anyway.

I did some micro compliance requests such as show me your hand to do a hand read etc but I never felt that I had control. I was leading the convo, doing small bits of kino, humour and deep diving, some light sexual topics etc but still I felt more of an interesting traveller than a seducer.

A few other recent examples where I felt like this:

20yo Hot girl super extroverted
-She joined the convo I was having with another girl in a hostel.
- next day she invited me to go to the lake to swim
- again, good convo, deep diving, teasing her (pushed her into the water playfully etc)
- she did move out my hand when I held it on her leg for a tad too long but didnt seem bothered
- she asked my age when discussing intimate topics (I take this Q when asked in such times to be - "is this guy a possibility?")
- she was one of those people that only followed 10 ppl. So when we were exchanging instagram, I got her phone and followed myself.
- she was responsive on msgs given that she was ignoring most others.

Unfortunately, she was leaving that same day to another location.

I did try to set up for us to meet again while we travel but its hard when nobody knows their exact plan.

Whats annoying is that I dont know if I had any chance at all. If at home a girl says no to coming back to mine. You know. In this situation, I still have no clue if she ever saw me as a potential guy she would sleep with.

21 yo quiet but confident hot girl
I went to the lake to swim the next day with another girl (who is bi and had rejected me the day before 😂), and we randomly met this stunning 21yo already there who was from our hostel.

She was quiet but was immediately asking me deeper questions than most travellers which threw me off initially as it took me some time to direct the conversation.

Unfortunately, it was same as previous girl. She was chilling at the lake for few hours while waiting for her bus.

Now, even if the logistics make it super hard for something to happen, I want them to leave feeling like they wished they werent leaving.
Instead, I do think I make a good impression, but not good enough to overcome the horrible logistics of not being in the same place.
 
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