Hey everyone,
I'm currently dealing with some challenges in escalating via text, and I wanted to get some advice from this community. The goal is to escalate as much as possible through text to get the girl into a sexual mindset about me even before we meet. I'm wondering, is this even worthwhile?
The main problem is that escalation by text seems to be an extremely precise art. It feels like it's very easy to get ghosted if I overstep some imaginary line. On the other hand, if I escalate too little, the conversation gets boring for both parties. The conversations I have are trough mobile apps to girls I've never met in person.
For context, most of the girls I've been texting with are East Asian, but I've encountered the same issues with Western women. Here's a recent example to illustrate my point (We've already talked about meeting up sometime before; she is coming to visit my city):
As you can see, things seemed to be going well, and then suddenly, silence. This is a pattern I've noticed, and it's quite frustrating. I'm like 85% sure this one is salvageable but I still think I'm doing something wrong.
So, my questions are:
Any insights or advice would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks in advance!
Regards, Honey Nuts
I'm currently dealing with some challenges in escalating via text, and I wanted to get some advice from this community. The goal is to escalate as much as possible through text to get the girl into a sexual mindset about me even before we meet. I'm wondering, is this even worthwhile?
The main problem is that escalation by text seems to be an extremely precise art. It feels like it's very easy to get ghosted if I overstep some imaginary line. On the other hand, if I escalate too little, the conversation gets boring for both parties. The conversations I have are trough mobile apps to girls I've never met in person.
For context, most of the girls I've been texting with are East Asian, but I've encountered the same issues with Western women. Here's a recent example to illustrate my point (We've already talked about meeting up sometime before; she is coming to visit my city):
Her: I want to go sightseeing, visit the market, and so on...
Me: Good idea, just don't get lost
Me: Since you love animals, I think you would love the local Aquarium. I recommend it.
Her: Let's go to the Aquarium
Her: Be careful not to get lost
Me: It's a date.
Me: Good girl.
Her: It's a date (wide eyes emoji)
Her: Please guide me in the City
Me: Yep. And some drinks after.
Me: Are you looking forward to it?
Her: radio silence...
As you can see, things seemed to be going well, and then suddenly, silence. This is a pattern I've noticed, and it's quite frustrating. I'm like 85% sure this one is salvageable but I still think I'm doing something wrong.
So, my questions are:
- Is escalating via text to get a girl into a sexual mindset before meeting even worthwhile?
- What are some effective strategies for escalation without crossing that imaginary line that leads to being ghosted?
- How do you keep the conversation exciting without overstepping?
- Any advice for a comeback with the girl in my example after shunning her for like a week?
Any insights or advice would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks in advance!
Regards, Honey Nuts