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It's about that time! You know, the time when one asks how to go from meeting a girl to closing with said girl. What makes me beg the question is pure and simple: frustration.
(Context) I just got back from a social event at a new High-school I'll be going to in a weeks time, which is great because this school's different (let's leave it at that for pure simplicity) teaching methods allow plenty of private social time between students and even have plenty of places one could slip off to. The guys there seem to be anxious to have me as a friend and I don't think there was a single girl there who wasn't giving me approach invitations! Although every pro has a con, it's still a small private school with few people attending and let's be honest: it's school so there's still the issue of instant social circle (not to mention, a small social circle). And although I'd say I did fairly well tonight, it's still frustrating because there I was. Sitting/ standing there (sometimes in a group), talking to plenty of girls with the ability to move somewhere private easily and yet I lack the knowledge and therefor even the ability to close (I've nailed everything else leading up to closing pretty well by this point in time). I know they want it, I just don't know how to give them it! It's maddening!
So I've started reading some articles on closing from the main page but I'd like to hear what advice you guys could give for my situation and as to how I can close with girls consistently and even more confidently. Thanks!
(Context) I just got back from a social event at a new High-school I'll be going to in a weeks time, which is great because this school's different (let's leave it at that for pure simplicity) teaching methods allow plenty of private social time between students and even have plenty of places one could slip off to. The guys there seem to be anxious to have me as a friend and I don't think there was a single girl there who wasn't giving me approach invitations! Although every pro has a con, it's still a small private school with few people attending and let's be honest: it's school so there's still the issue of instant social circle (not to mention, a small social circle). And although I'd say I did fairly well tonight, it's still frustrating because there I was. Sitting/ standing there (sometimes in a group), talking to plenty of girls with the ability to move somewhere private easily and yet I lack the knowledge and therefor even the ability to close (I've nailed everything else leading up to closing pretty well by this point in time). I know they want it, I just don't know how to give them it! It's maddening!
So I've started reading some articles on closing from the main page but I'd like to hear what advice you guys could give for my situation and as to how I can close with girls consistently and even more confidently. Thanks!
