James Newbie Assignment

[Ironjames]

I will start off with a little about myself. I just graduated high school and i am 18 years old and after having a girl not text me back i looked up on google why wouldn't she text me back and find girlschase.com where i read several articles. However upon reading i found the forums and decided instead of reading and studying all the material before hand ill learn as i go. I have been lurking the forums and reading all the posts and they have been a great help to a beginner like myself.
Ill start off with day one but it expands upon three additional days and ill explain why later.
Day 11
Find four different places where there are women that i like to meet.
Park #1(Mid day)
Seen around two to five girls walking around the park but besides that it was pretty much empty so i decided to try another park.

Park #2
No girls initially but as i was leaving three decided to show up. Again park was pretty much empty.

Park #3
2 Mothers with children, however no other girls or woman there. Park was yet again pretty much empty besides them and there family.(See a trend?)

Local Library
A couple of girls there with some traffic flow.

Day 12
I decided to go a little bit earlier this time to the parks to see if the cooler mornings brought more women out.
Park #1
No girls just two mothers and there kids.

Park #2
No girls my age however there were more older women there.(Around 7 and if i had to guess age i would say 30-50)

Park #3
One girl this time and a mother along with two older women.

Park #4
One girl with a family

I have noticed that a lot of the parks are empty through out the day while some show a promising increase in the amount of people who are there towards the night. I then read a post by [Zphix] who said that he usually sees more girls/women in department stores. So i decided to go to the local walmart and see what was around.

Walmart
I noticed and counted over 20 girls who i estimated to be around my age to 30. With around 2-3 really cute girls and with one who was alright.

I have figured out a couple other places to check as well such as
Barnes and Nobles, Walmart in the city over, Then theres two malls about equal distance from me.

The Day 1 assignment split up was mainly to see how big of a difference the time of the day was for women being out and about.
I usually go play Tennis at Park #5 every day of the weekend towards the night and when i went a women with her daughter and a young cute girl come out of the car and i notice them through peripherals and throughout the whole time i am there the girl did not once look at me until they were about to leave when she went to get a drink of water and looked at me about 2-3 times while she went to get water,drank, and was leaving.

 

[Richard]

Congrats on graduating, it's a wonderful feeling isn't it? Still after two months, I can't believe the high school trek is over. Welcome to the forums man, if you need any help, by all means post! Enjoy your stay, and I wish you luck in your career with women
-Richard

 

[Ironjames]

Yes a lot more freedom to actually do what i want. Alright thanks, i was wondering since you usually go "scouting" for woman at department stores do you go for a product/good and just happen to pick up women along the way or do you go for that initial reason(Just to pick up women)? I feel a little awkward just walking into department stores and browsing and just end up walking out without anything.

Day 2: Not really feeling like going out.
The day is still young however and i will end up going out to a couple places! Does anyone find that if you make a list of what your gonna do throughout the day its actually a lot easier to complete it then as to say i am going to go here and do this and that.

 

[Richard]

Well, I tend to find a reason to get out of the house because I generally don't like being at home too much so, I find a reason to hit up a department store and go from there. Before, I would go out to department stores just to pick women up, not so much anymore, at the advice of J and Light, I no longer scout in general, I go about my day and seem to find the women during my days now

 

[Ironjames]

Same with me, I feel a lot better if i go outside even if its just to walk or jog around. Ill attempt to do that and continue on with the newbie assignment. Day 2 will officially start tomorrow for me! Any advice you have for someone who is starting out? I have had some success with women and i noticed that most of the success happened when i escalated quickly and at the right moments. The longer i would wait the less likely it would be to happen.

 

[Richard]

Yes, when starting, get the number as quick as possible.

Don't be afraid to try and fail, learn from your mistakes.

Before going out, brush up on some of Chases articles to keep things fresh.

Have fun with it, its a learning experience, and a damn fun one at that!

Experiment, try new things with women all the time, don't stick to one way of doing something, try to work as many angles as possible for future versarility.

And my personal favorite, CHALLENGE YOURSELF! Set some goals for yourself and work through them, start small and gradually get bigger, it will keep you motivated, and give you something to work towards.
Enjoy your future success, I look forward to your progress,
Richard

 

[Ironjames]

Day 2 Posture
Guy walked with a slight hunch in his back and was cautious of his surroundings(Constantly looking)

Another guy had good posture and walked with a friend

Friend had a slight hunch with shoulders down and seemed to move a lot and fast

Guy with a straight back with shoulders not pulled back and head slightly in front.(He walked around constantly and quick also screaming a lot.) This guy displayed almost no dominance and was not getting any respect from others(kids)[Fight at park,the older guy was the girls brother who was fighting. He then dropped his phone and someone snatched it causing him to get angry]

Three guys with slightly straight backs however there heads seemed to go out to the front a bit and when they looked out the guy who was screaming they proceeded to look down and submissive.

One guy playing Basketball at the park with a curve in his back(Upper)


Not everyone has really good posture and while some do have good parts of the good posture they don't have the whole thing. While people who did have good posture walked with pride and confidence, while those who didn't were submissive and nervous.

My posture i noticed that i have always had a straight back and i hardly curve it at all.(Girl once was curious as to why my back was really straight when i was sitting next to her at the bleachers at a game and couldn't exactly tell her why. However she sat with her back slightly curved over and not straight) I need to slightly move my shoulders back because i usually just leave them where they are/slightly out front.

I read pre-opening,opening and eye contact articles a couple times before going out. Its always nice to read something new that you never knew before. I have noticed so far that i am starting to get the habit of wanting to go outside more often.(Started biking around my city for about 5 miles a day) I will start adding Grocery shopping and just casual exploring to my list. Majority of family is going out today so lets see what i can do with that opportunity.

 

[Ironjames]

Day 3 : Eye Contact
Originally this was only supposed to take one day but it ended up going over to two days. Some of these eye contacts took place while i was riding my bike and ill note when i change from bike to a location throughout.
The first guy i walked up to i initiated and after around two seconds he ended up looking down.

The second guy i had looked at he ended up looking down as well.

The third guy i was biking down a bike trail and he was coming up it so i decided to initiate eye contact and he looked up and nodded his head and i nodded mine as well and we passed each other

I ended up going to a park after the little bike trail to see who i could initiate eye contact with, The first person was a Old woman and she looked down after a around a second.

On my way back from the park back i was biking towards a girl and as we met up i initiated eye contact and she looked at me then looked towards her left.(First girl/woman who didn't look down, Also she looked upset)

The next person was walking his dog and i initiated eye contact and he stared back so to not make it so uncomfortable i nodded my head and then he looked down at his dog.

I tried to initiate eye contact with a old woman at a bus top as i biked by and she just either stared back at me or down the distance to where the bus might possibly come. I had considered this a fail and didn't decide to write it down but ill go ahead and put it on here.

NEXT DAY:

I decided to go to the gym and see what i could do there, I initiated eye contact through the mirror(does this still count?) and the man looked away to his left.

Then while resting after doing pull-ups i tried to initiate eye contact with another man and he instantly looked away as i turned.

I noticed this was only 9 eye contacts and i had decided to try out eye contact before so ill just list the one as well.

I was riding my bike down a path and as i passed another bike rider i initiated eye contact and he nodded his head and said hello.

Overall i have concluded that the majority of the people will either look down or away depending on if its a man or a woman. However i have a question as to why some people may dart there eyes when you try to initiate or they have already been looking and you go to initiate?

 

[Ironjames]

Day 4 : Say hi to six attractive women

I ended up going to walmart to try and complete this task. As soon as i walked in i see this girl just standing there and as i am passing her to say hi her family comes up from the side and they start walking so i decide not to.
This was really hard for me i had a lot of AA and just couldnt say hi to a lot of girls or women. The majority of girls or woman there were with family so it would of felt kind of werid just going up to them with there family and just saying hi and walk away. Anyone know how to deal with AA and how to approach women who are with there family?(I know there is a thread about approaching in groups but i can't seem to find it)

So i consider this day a fail. I didn't really like that i failed and it should not be that hard to just go up and say hi to a attractive woman. I even decided to man up after going to walmart and instantly went to another woman to complete the assignment 20 minutes later however there was no attractive women there so i decided to leave and try my luck at the previous one tomorrow.

No matter how long this day takes i will complete it!

 

[Ironjames]

Day 4 Just a simple Hi: It wasn't as bad as i thought.
I had to redo this day over because the first day i completely chickened out. So here is how it went the second time around
Walked into stater brothers to do some grocery shopping and went to the produce section to get some items off my list, when i happen to see a attractive older black woman who i say hi to and then follow up with a question because it was my first time shopping. She seemed friendly and even smiled back when she said hi.

Walked into walmart later on and said hi to a really cute girl wearing small shorts and a tanktop however she seem disinterested and said hi as we passed by. I was pretty nervous when saying hi but after i did feel better.

My friends invited me out skating and i had sat down to take a break and said hey to a girl and asked a question right after.

As i was leaving to take off my skates i said hi to a girl walking by and she looked up and said huh so i said hi again and waved and she said hi back and smiled.

It was getting late and i was still pretty nervous/slacking on the assignment so i decided to do a three for one deal. Where i was walking out and i said hey to three women who were walking in to In n Out.


Ill probably say hi to more girls out today along with day 5 of the assignment. I have a hard time with AA and it ends up getting the best of me, however when im in my i really don't care or(fuck it) moods then i can go up to any girl and say hi to her with no anxiety at all.

Anyone have any tips for AA? Also i have to work on not making eye contact and using peripherals to spot more and allowing her to make eye contact first when walking up to say hello.
Things to work on
*Approaching more confidently
*Using Peripherals and working on eye contact

 

[Ironjames]

It has been cloudy and a little rainy over the past two days so hence i haven't gone out to complete day 5. However today is looking better with sunlight out and about even though it might be cloudy later today i will complete the assignment and post it when it is done.

 

[Ironjames]

Day 5 : Getting better but not quite there yet.
Majority of my day i had seen little to any cute attractive women, so most of these are towards sunset.

First two cute girls i walk up to on the tennis courts and i say hows it going? and only one responds and says good and you and i reply with great and the other heard me but didn't say anything, Was curious as to why?

Said hows it going to another two girls as i was walking out of the park restroom and got no reply until i was walking away while one girl said good and the other just laughed. Did i catch them off guard or was the tone of my voice not right?

In the assignment it said i couldn't go home until i did two more so i tried my luck at walmart however girls with there families seems difficult for me. I can't decide whether to just flat out ask the girl or ask the mom first but asking the mom would be a waste because i was only going to ask hows it going. However i should just ask the mom anyways with something like "Hey i noticed your daughter there and i was wondering if i could have 2 minutes to talk to her?" Looks at daughter and smiles then proceed to open or ask her what i wanted to do.

*Things to work on
*Don't think while approaching just do, I can approach more this way and i feel more confident.
*Work on approaching girls with there families
*ALWAYS CHALLENGE YOURSELF

So i will do a redo of Day 5!