Japanese girl -how to adjust moves?

[Kezarin]

Hey all,

Met a 30 year old Japanese girl on bumble. She came here on a working holiday visa, and she loves art. Also creative herself, likes walks, games and pubs.

She’s only been here for a month or so she doesn’t really know her way around the city so I told her I’d show her all my favorite spots.
I’m gonna take her to a cafe tomorrow at 6pm, and maybe after that go to a bar or a pub to get a few drinks and if all goes well I’ll book a room close by and we’ll smash - but so far we only confirmed the cafe. Oh and she barely speaks english.

My question to anyone familiar with japanese girls is, are there things that you should do differently with them? I kinda found with previous japanese girls that teasing didn’t really work as well but that they respond well to….idk, kindness game? beta game? nice guy game? at least through texting. They also do that thing where if you write 3 texts about different topics, they’ll make sure to reply to each text individually. Pretty interesting.

So that’s the gist of it. Any advice on how I should proceed, and should I maybe be more physical and clear with my intentions because of the language barrier? Or maybe after drinks?

Cheers!

 

[isildur1]

Use a translator app from english to Japanese (you probably were planning to do this anyway but thats a point)

maybe read a bit about Japanese history or different Japanese cities before hand ( not saying you have to have huge knowledge but a little helps to win rapport)

As someone who dated Japanese and speaks B1 level Japanese i'd say theres a large variance some were down on the first date others were frigid and required more dates - it really varies from women to women - if you like women from an ethnic group studying a bit about that ethnic group/speaking the language always helps to win rapport and builds trust so convert leads - it doesn't guarantee anything of course but through the long run it helps lower percentages of flakes / wins trust etc

 

[Kezarin]

Use a translator app from english to Japanese (you probably were planning to do this anyway but thats a point)

maybe read a bit about Japanese history or different Japanese cities before hand ( not saying you have to have huge knowledge but a little helps to win rapport)

As someone who dated Japanese and speaks B1 level Japanese i'd say theres a large variance some were down on the first date others were frigid and required more dates - it really varies from women to women - if you like women from an ethnic group studying a bit about that ethnic group/speaking the language always helps to win rapport and builds trust so convert leads - it doesn't guarantee anything of course but through the long run it helps lower percentages of flakes / wins trust etc

Alright alright, sounds great thank you!

I actually know a tiny bit of Japanese and lived in both Tokyo and Osaka for two months.

What are some things you did with the girls it worked out with right away? How did you ecalate physically? Did you touch a lot, how did you communicate that you were a sexual man? I really wanna eat this girl up, she’s super cute haha.

 

[isildur1]

also Japanese women tend to love Moomin and Peter Rabbit so maybe tease her on that - sounds like a broad generalised statement but their culture loves that sort of "Cute" girlie feminine stuff

maybe focus topics of interest on Kpop (very big in japan and a lot of k pop artists are Japanese ), Anime of course and food - Kobe Beef, Sushi,Ramen , Soba could be good for discussion

in terms of physical escalation its hard to gage because every girl is different - which country are you dating her in btw?

 

[Kezarin]

also Japanese women tend to love Moomin and Peter Rabbit so maybe tease her on that - sounds like a broad generalised statement but their culture loves that sort of "Cute" girlie feminine stuff

maybe focus topics of interest on Kpop (very big in japan and a lot of k pop artists are Japanese ), Anime of course and food - Kobe Beef, Sushi,Ramen , Soba could be good for discussion

in terms of physical escalation its hard to gage because every girl is different - which country are you dating her in btw?

Okay, I’ll make sure to bring it up haha.

I’m in Vienna, Austria, she came here to live cause she loved the art and everything.

 

[isildur1]

Alright alright, sounds great thank you!

I actually know a tiny bit of Japanese and lived in both Tokyo and Osaka for two months.

What are some things you did with the girls it worked out with right away? How did you ecalate physically? Did you touch a lot, how did you communicate that you were a sexual man? I really wanna eat this girl up, she’s super cute haha.

only slept with one japanese woman on the first date in Hangzou - i approached her in a Vietnamese restaurant and asked to eat her and she said yes she then asked me to walk her back to the hotel so it was a massive lucky yes girl - we then had tea in the hotel lobby and i asked to give her a hand massage and when she said yes to that i knew it was on.

But that was more an impulsive yes girl - for others i dated they were more frigid and wanted more than one date- so again it varies from girl to girl . Getting a same day lay with one doesn't guarantee anything with the others .

 

[isildur1]

Okay, I’ll make sure to bring it up haha.

I’m in Vienna, Austria, she came here to live cause she loved the art and everything.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yayoi_Kusama she's a famous artist - pretty big here in London , maybe bring her up on the date .If she's artisy maybe find some sort of hipster art coffee shop something to win rapport before alcoholic drinks .