I'm interested in joining some kink and fetish communities, has anyone had any experiences in those communities and can share their experiences or advise the differences in game dynamics and possibly left leaning communities and how these two dynamics may overlap or contradict?
Daken
- A good place to start is take the BDSM test and research any acronym you don't understand.
- Also check out consent frameworks of RACK/CNC etc.
- Lastly look at relationship models e.g. non-mono, polyamerous, ENM
- Try the Feeld app
It's like learning a new language lol (personally think it's a silly game they do to make them feel special but I digress)
Once you understand the language it's quite cool because a few acronyms exchange you know exactly what a girl's like & how compatible they're
Shock horror most of them are submissive and some are a little bratty.
Lastly quick win to integrate in the community is learn rope because most girls would be curious/willing to try and makes you look like an authority.
Please also ensure you still deploy game and good social skills. As a straight male, it's extra important to show yourself as open minded, non-judgmental, at least politically moderate if not left and most importantly not a creep otherwise you won't be accepted.
Too many guys think they can join, flash their dick around & get a load of sex... Doesn't work like that at all.
For attractiveness of girl - I've found more conventional communities are better (for my tastes) but worth exploring and you may really like it.
