"kisses" in text/messaging?

[Fluxcapacitor]

Dudes what are your thoughts on using kisses (x) in texting/messaging? On all examples on the site and on screen shots of messages I have seen on the forum they’re never used. I never used to use them but realised that girls thought I weren’t interested because I never used ‘kisses’ back. I started to mirror girls and send them back and this fixed my texting/messaging instantly.

An observation made of this, the more invested a girl is in me the more ‘kisses’ I get. Where I used to fall down on this was I inadvertently slowed down interactions by not mirroring this behaviour and would give less back. When girls used to put xx at the end I would respond with the ‘standard’ x and they would then mirror me to not be more invested. I then would mirror the increase in ‘kisses’ the second time they done it to encourage/reward the behaviour. I started to mirror this straight away about 18 month ago and this has helped build the momentum/connection with the girls.

Another question that goes with this, I remember reading in an article here not to punish girls in your texts/messages by removing the kisses (x) if you usually use them (possibly because it looks petty, immature, focuses (and accepts) the negative vibe and isn’t productive to the seduction) but what happens if they don’t mirror your behaviour and accept your “frame”? If you continue putting the kisses it would look like you’re either investing more in them as if you’re chasing or that your socially inept. This question goes both for if a girl randomly drops them for no apparent reason (forgotten/replied to fast), they’re in a mood with you or if they’ve decided they want to argue with you. Usually I won’t get involved if they’re being moody or want to argue I’m only messaging to arrange to meet so I don’t really need that drama and they can come back when they’re not full of attitude.

Thanks dudes!!

 

[Fuck This]

the Kiss emoji is my "I got your message, but i'm busy "*kiss* "run along now and I'll hit you up again when I'm free. " response.

First couple of times I do a 5 minute-10 minute lag on response after the "Kiss".

 

[naturalmikey]

i use the one that comes up when you type hearts. it's two hearts one overlapping the other. this chick used to send them to me and they made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside so i started sending them. they're very nice.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@Fuck This dude! I was mostly asking for the tradition "X" for a kiss but I like the use of emoji's too!

I like your use of it here, but wouldn't it just make more sense to just reply in 10 minutes when you actually have time?
Unless this is on an app thing where they can see you've read it? And then possibly good to get them into the habit of this emoji means am busy but will reply when I can?

 

[Fuck This]

It's an acknowledgement, not a response. It lets her know you aren't ignoring her, without seeming like you will drop everything to have a conversation with her. The first couple of times you can tell her, "Was on the phone with a client/an employee/ a supplier, etc. so she realize you do a have a life that doesn't revolve around her.

I try to be a little more stoic in my responses unless she is sending me nudes....