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A long-haired brunette (latina) walked thru the entrance of the store at about 5’5. She wore a t-shirt and shorts so I could tell she was athletic and very cute!
With a guy following behind her, I couldn’t tell if she was alone. I thought, “Damn.” However, I did see her looking around (alone) in women’s apparel.
Next thing I know, she’s walking by me alone. I do an indirect approach as she was making an exit.
Me: That was fast! Couldn’t find what you wanted?
Her: No.
Me: What are you up to today?
Her: I’m going to the gym.
We start relating on different workouts we enjoyed, but she soon began to pull away with her body language. At this point I knew I had to step it up (before she made an exit).
Me: You’re actually kind of cute. You single?
Her: Yeah I am.
Me: Lets go on a date.
This line has worked well for me for a while. She agreed, but I knew her words weren’t enough. I knew I needed a kiss close to make a strong impact. Girls’ numbers have been too flaky for me lately. Results over reactions gentlemen!
Note: I’m in work clothes, but I’ve been in the gym and I still look fashionable. I can tell by her energy this may be why she’s attracted.
I compliment her energy and walk her through the exit so we aren’t so exposed to my coworkers. Here goes nothing!
Me: Lets step over here before they start telling me to stop talking.
Her: Haha okay.
I’m making sure to lead her. This is also great compliance stacking. During our conversation I did things like high fives, and qualifications to reward her when she said things I liked. I kept telling her, “you get a point.”
Physical touch is stronger than verbal so at some point I grabbed her hand and she held on gently. This is more compliance and great backwards rationalization. She’s holding my hand so she must like me.
We’re now having the romantic connection we need for her not to be as flaky. This is my driving force. I could tell this girl was into me and having fun. Releasing first to avoid getting cock-blocked by coworkers, I began playing the guess game with her.
Me: What letter does your name start with?
Her: A “K.”
Me: What does it end with?
Her: A “Y.”
Me: If I guess it right, I get a kiss on the cheek.
Her: Okay
Me: If I get it right, I get a kiss. And if I get it wrong, I get a kiss.
Her: It doesn’t work like that haha!
I couldn’t guess it for shit so I gave up haha!
Her: It’s K****y
Me: What? I never would’ve guessed that! I can at least get a hug right?
She agreed to the hug and moves to the corner with me. This is more compliance. Mind you, I’m in the store-front and there are also cameras around so this is very difficult to pull off!
As we hug I tell her to give me a kiss and she kisses my cheek.
Me: No, the middle.
She turned her head and we kiss on the lips! She’s now blushing super hard.
Her: This is crazy haha!
Me: I like to live life on the edge. Follow me on Instagram and we can set up the date. Maybe get a coffee, or something.
Her: Okay.
I pulled up my page, but I left it up to her to follow. This now puts her into a chase frame. She followed me the same night, but didn’t accept my request until the next day. When she did, I messaged her reminding her about our romance.
Me: Your lips were so soft. Lets get together.
Her: Yeah sure! We can do that one of these days.
Me: This is my business account. What’s your number?
Note: I got her page before phone number so she gets to observe my nice pictures first. This’ll create more investment from her.
She gave me her number. It’s on! I texted her a little while after.
Me: Save me as “Lover.” What’s your schedule like the next 7 days?
Her: Omg no you did not haha! Gym, cleaning, and work. Wby?
Me: I’m busy, but can free up time in the mornings.
Her: I work mornings.
Me: That’s perfect. We can do something romantic in the evening after work. I’m thinking something by the park with people walking by. I’m off Tuesday and Wednesday at 9:00p.
Note: I made sure not to chase her around her schedule, but I could’ve fucked up by changing my mind from morning to evening availability. She didn’t reply for 4 hours.
Me: Was it something I said?
Her: No I’ve been cleaning haha
Me: Which day works for you? Tuesday, or Wednesday at 9:00p?
She hasn’t replied since.
A few things I analyzed on her page was: (1) she had kids, (2) selfies taken in the passenger seat w/o ever showing the driver, and (3) some of her captions seemed like she’s been through some hard times.
1st theory — She could be trying to cheat on her man and she’s hesitant.
2nd theory — She’s actually single, but I moved too fast with trying to set up the date.
I’ll call her and see where things go.
What I learned — You’d be surprised with what you can get away with when you handle your fundamentals, qualify, stack compliance, calibrate, and just fucking go for it!
This is my second time doing this recently (except the other girl turned her head and I missed the lips). This is NOT luck!
Last takeaway — I’m gonna start calling girls to set up the date instead of texting. It could take 2 minutes as opposed to an entire day of texting back and forward.
With a guy following behind her, I couldn’t tell if she was alone. I thought, “Damn.” However, I did see her looking around (alone) in women’s apparel.
Next thing I know, she’s walking by me alone. I do an indirect approach as she was making an exit.
Me: That was fast! Couldn’t find what you wanted?
Her: No.
Me: What are you up to today?
Her: I’m going to the gym.
We start relating on different workouts we enjoyed, but she soon began to pull away with her body language. At this point I knew I had to step it up (before she made an exit).
Me: You’re actually kind of cute. You single?
Her: Yeah I am.
Me: Lets go on a date.
This line has worked well for me for a while. She agreed, but I knew her words weren’t enough. I knew I needed a kiss close to make a strong impact. Girls’ numbers have been too flaky for me lately. Results over reactions gentlemen!
Note: I’m in work clothes, but I’ve been in the gym and I still look fashionable. I can tell by her energy this may be why she’s attracted.
I compliment her energy and walk her through the exit so we aren’t so exposed to my coworkers. Here goes nothing!
Me: Lets step over here before they start telling me to stop talking.
Her: Haha okay.
I’m making sure to lead her. This is also great compliance stacking. During our conversation I did things like high fives, and qualifications to reward her when she said things I liked. I kept telling her, “you get a point.”
Physical touch is stronger than verbal so at some point I grabbed her hand and she held on gently. This is more compliance and great backwards rationalization. She’s holding my hand so she must like me.
We’re now having the romantic connection we need for her not to be as flaky. This is my driving force. I could tell this girl was into me and having fun. Releasing first to avoid getting cock-blocked by coworkers, I began playing the guess game with her.
Me: What letter does your name start with?
Her: A “K.”
Me: What does it end with?
Her: A “Y.”
Me: If I guess it right, I get a kiss on the cheek.
Her: Okay
Me: If I get it right, I get a kiss. And if I get it wrong, I get a kiss.
Her: It doesn’t work like that haha!
I couldn’t guess it for shit so I gave up haha!
Her: It’s K****y
Me: What? I never would’ve guessed that! I can at least get a hug right?
She agreed to the hug and moves to the corner with me. This is more compliance. Mind you, I’m in the store-front and there are also cameras around so this is very difficult to pull off!
As we hug I tell her to give me a kiss and she kisses my cheek.
Me: No, the middle.
She turned her head and we kiss on the lips! She’s now blushing super hard.
Her: This is crazy haha!
Me: I like to live life on the edge. Follow me on Instagram and we can set up the date. Maybe get a coffee, or something.
Her: Okay.
I pulled up my page, but I left it up to her to follow. This now puts her into a chase frame. She followed me the same night, but didn’t accept my request until the next day. When she did, I messaged her reminding her about our romance.
Me: Your lips were so soft. Lets get together.
Her: Yeah sure! We can do that one of these days.
Me: This is my business account. What’s your number?
Note: I got her page before phone number so she gets to observe my nice pictures first. This’ll create more investment from her.
She gave me her number. It’s on! I texted her a little while after.
Me: Save me as “Lover.” What’s your schedule like the next 7 days?
Her: Omg no you did not haha! Gym, cleaning, and work. Wby?
Me: I’m busy, but can free up time in the mornings.
Her: I work mornings.
Me: That’s perfect. We can do something romantic in the evening after work. I’m thinking something by the park with people walking by. I’m off Tuesday and Wednesday at 9:00p.
Note: I made sure not to chase her around her schedule, but I could’ve fucked up by changing my mind from morning to evening availability. She didn’t reply for 4 hours.
Me: Was it something I said?
Her: No I’ve been cleaning haha
Me: Which day works for you? Tuesday, or Wednesday at 9:00p?
She hasn’t replied since.
A few things I analyzed on her page was: (1) she had kids, (2) selfies taken in the passenger seat w/o ever showing the driver, and (3) some of her captions seemed like she’s been through some hard times.
1st theory — She could be trying to cheat on her man and she’s hesitant.
2nd theory — She’s actually single, but I moved too fast with trying to set up the date.
I’ll call her and see where things go.
What I learned — You’d be surprised with what you can get away with when you handle your fundamentals, qualify, stack compliance, calibrate, and just fucking go for it!
This is my second time doing this recently (except the other girl turned her head and I missed the lips). This is NOT luck!
Last takeaway — I’m gonna start calling girls to set up the date instead of texting. It could take 2 minutes as opposed to an entire day of texting back and forward.
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