- Joined
- Dec 18, 2013
- Messages
- 211
Introduction:
It started this summer: one night in late August, as I approached the front door of my apartment building, I suddenly met eye to eye with a very cute, petite Korean girl, coming from the opposite direction. The mutual attraction was overwhelming, as we both smiled intently at each other. Once we both stepped into the same elevator together, I couldn't help but notice the balm patch on her forearm, which meant she was a pianist, so I opened with a cold read…
*Breaking News* 4:30pm EST
We had set up to meet at my place at 8 tonight, so I'm in the hot seat to think fast because, as I write this field report, I just received this sudden slew of texts from her.
hey
do you mind if we meet with my friends?
you can come to my house!
one of best couples in [University]
I realize it could be any combination of things: she's young and freaking out, she's religious and had a change of heart, she's beta zoning to test me (any more…?)
Part of me thinks that, since I am a beginner, I ought to just walk into the trap and let it play out. It probably couldn't hurt to build up a group of female friends, given the relative point if isolation I come from.
P.S. Apologies for swapping my avatar— it's taken a few tries, but I think this one probably fits best. No intention of confusing my identity with you all.
Thank you in advance for any advice!!
–VP
It started this summer: one night in late August, as I approached the front door of my apartment building, I suddenly met eye to eye with a very cute, petite Korean girl, coming from the opposite direction. The mutual attraction was overwhelming, as we both smiled intently at each other. Once we both stepped into the same elevator together, I couldn't help but notice the balm patch on her forearm, which meant she was a pianist, so I opened with a cold read…
*Breaking News* 4:30pm EST
We had set up to meet at my place at 8 tonight, so I'm in the hot seat to think fast because, as I write this field report, I just received this sudden slew of texts from her.
hey
do you mind if we meet with my friends?
you can come to my house!
one of best couples in [University]
I realize it could be any combination of things: she's young and freaking out, she's religious and had a change of heart, she's beta zoning to test me (any more…?)
Part of me thinks that, since I am a beginner, I ought to just walk into the trap and let it play out. It probably couldn't hurt to build up a group of female friends, given the relative point if isolation I come from.
P.S. Apologies for swapping my avatar— it's taken a few tries, but I think this one probably fits best. No intention of confusing my identity with you all.
Thank you in advance for any advice!!
–VP
