In the last 2 days i went out to make my first direct approach on a park nearby my house, but really, there's very few people there on weekdays (no girls coming my way/nearby by themselves, the few that are by themselves are either running or walking) which makes it harder to approach naturally, which made me come back home without approaching again.
I live in a relatively small town, and the only accessible places to me with at least half a dozen girls are this park, the gym and a small supermarket. On the gym i often encounter women who i've never seen there before, but i never approach, fearing that the attendants there will start gossiping even more about me (for some reason they already gossip about me) . I go on two different gyms, so that's cool since i get a nice variety of women to approach there... reminder: never did though.
I wish i had a vehicle to go out to bars and parties 2-3 times a week, but since i don't, it's complicated to go on foot during the night, lots of robberies and stuff around here.
And also, in those 3 places i mentioned being accessible to me, i'm always finding people that ''knows'' me, which makes me feel pressured, worrired with stupid social image...
I read The Genuine Man Part 1 from Hector and i definitely feel like start practcing those jerk behaviors already to get rid of my weaknesses.
Question to anyone here on this forum: If you were in my place, with few places and few people to approach, would you say: ''screw my social reputation and start approaching hard or what?''
Please, offer me a little guidance... i'm not easily offended by the way, you can be completely honest with me.
I live in a relatively small town, and the only accessible places to me with at least half a dozen girls are this park, the gym and a small supermarket. On the gym i often encounter women who i've never seen there before, but i never approach, fearing that the attendants there will start gossiping even more about me (for some reason they already gossip about me) . I go on two different gyms, so that's cool since i get a nice variety of women to approach there... reminder: never did though.
I wish i had a vehicle to go out to bars and parties 2-3 times a week, but since i don't, it's complicated to go on foot during the night, lots of robberies and stuff around here.
And also, in those 3 places i mentioned being accessible to me, i'm always finding people that ''knows'' me, which makes me feel pressured, worrired with stupid social image...
I read The Genuine Man Part 1 from Hector and i definitely feel like start practcing those jerk behaviors already to get rid of my weaknesses.
Question to anyone here on this forum: If you were in my place, with few places and few people to approach, would you say: ''screw my social reputation and start approaching hard or what?''
Please, offer me a little guidance... i'm not easily offended by the way, you can be completely honest with me.
