Lack of confidence

[Wannabecasanova]

Hello

New to this forum. In hope it could change my dating life

Whenever I try to approach any girl I feel lack of confidence and simultaneously fear appears in my mind. Can please anyone tell me how to overcome fear and have good confidence.

 

[RedNeck]

Fear of what !

Before I approach . I repeat this sentence in my mind “ She should feel lucky that I am talking to her “ . Repeat as much as possible .

 

[Stark]

Hello

New to this forum. In hope it could change my dating life

Whenever I try to approach any girl I feel lack of confidence and simultaneously fear appears in my mind. Can please anyone tell me how to overcome fear and have good confidence.

You build that confidence over a period of time.

Every approach boosts your self-image that you're a badass.

In the beginning, you'll be shaking like a leaf, but push yourself to go with the approach.

It always pays to do warm up approaches especially as a beginner(hired guns, service personnel, volunteers use every opportunity)

You looking good and vibing well, steering the convo, all these keeps adding your value

Your knowledge of social dynamics/women's nature improves your social IQ.

Having rock solid confidence in other areas of life (bodybuilding, martial arts, technical skills etc) flows into your approaches.

Brian TRacy is not wrong - Confidence comes from how much you like yourself - focus on improving your self esteem as well.

Confidence is like a stack - Add on as many aspects i mentioned above into your life - and your confidence explodes

 

[ElderPrice]

There have been more articles written on the main site on those subjects than you can probably find. Read them. Google will be your best friend here.

 

[Wannabecasanova]

You build that confidence over a period of time.

Every approach boosts your self-image that you're a badass.

In the beginning, you'll be shaking like a leaf, but push yourself to go with the approach.

It always pays to do warm up approaches especially as a beginner(hired guns, service personnel, volunteers use every opportunity)

You looking good and vibing well, steering the convo, all these keeps adding your value

Your knowledge of social dynamics/women's nature improves your social IQ.

Having rock solid confidence in other areas of life (bodybuilding, martial arts, technical skills etc) flows into your approaches.

Brian TRacy is not wrong - Confidence comes from how much you like yourself - focus on improving your self esteem as well.

Confidence is like a stack - Add on as many aspects i mentioned above into your life - and your confidence explodes

Thanks a lot for advice.

 

[Chase]

There have been more articles written on the main site on those subjects than you can probably find. Read them. Google will be your best friend here.

Just to make that a bit easier:

Here are links to the two most relevant categories of all ~2910 just-totally recategorized articles on GC:

Confidence

Fill yourself with resplendent self-assurance

www.girlschase.com

Approach Anxiety

Get over your fear of approaching women

www.girlschase.com

These'll be targeted to directly what you're looking for, @Wannabecasanova.

Styling's a little messy but that'll update soon with the new theme.

Chase

 

[Derek da man]

Confidence comes from how much you like yourself -

This is sooooo true, not see it written before though.

She should feel lucky that I am talking to her

Again very true. Stop looking at it from your perspective and look at it from hers. She's out to meet a guy she finds interesting and sexy, therefore she is lucky you walked up to her and not someone else.

 

[Wannabecasanova]

Just to make that a bit easier:

Here are links to the two most relevant categories of all ~2910 just-totally recategorized articles on GC:

Confidence

Fill yourself with resplendent self-assurance

www.girlschase.com

Approach Anxiety

Get over your fear of approaching women

www.girlschase.com

These'll be targeted to directly what you're looking for, @Wannabecasanova.

Styling's a little messy but that'll update soon with the new theme.

Chase

Thanks a lot man